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#1
I have a choice to go to the funeral, its in bridgeport conneticut I don't know whether to go or not I don't want to see my family members at such a sad time.

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#2
This isn't about you. Don't be a selfish twat. It's about your grandmother. Go.
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This isn't about you. Don't be a selfish twat. It's about your grandmother. Go.


Easy there, asshole.

But seriously though, you really should go.
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I have friends in Bridgeport. Is it nice?
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i know i didnt go to a funeral to one of my family members death. i mean if you really dont want to go, then you dont have to because it IS very emotionally tense.
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#7
If you don't go, then you'll probably regret it

Sorry about to hear about it, though.
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sorry for your loss. and +1 for being Selfish.
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im sorry to hear that man

but you should go

you'll regret it if you dont


+1 man, it's your grandma. Unless you've never met her or something I say it's your duty to go and pay respects.
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#11
Sorry to hear it, man. You should go, out of respect and people will want you to be there.
#12
Quote by Harmonius
This isn't about you. Don't be a selfish twat. It's about your grandmother. Go.


Calm down man, he's probably a LITTLE stressed right now...

But to the TS, even if there is in tension with you and the rest of your family, I would reccomend you would go out of respect for your grandmother, regardless of what type of relationship you had with her.

That's my advice, take it or leave it

Sorry for your loss

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#13
You an't not go because it's gonna be too sad. If you were close to her, or liked her at all, go.

EDIT: How \inconsiderate of me...my condolances. I'm sorry for your loss.
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Sorry to hear it man, but go. I regret I didn't go to my grandparents funeral or my aunts (I was very younger when they all died)
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#16
don't think bout your grandma think bout your parents bro's etc would they benifit from you being there
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#17
but you should go if you don't then
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#18
Go definately, it's a time when everyone has to be there for each other, plus you will really regret it in the future if you don't.

and sorry to hear about that, losing a relative sucks
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Easy there, asshole.

But seriously though, you really should go.


A funeral is supposed to be emotion. It's what they're designed for. Not wanting to see family members makes it entirely selfish because it's not about how you're feeling. You go to a funeral out of respect for the lost soul. When someone close has died you pay your respects - end of.

If you're stressed - not going will make it worse. You shouldn't even thinking about this dilemma.
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#20
sorry dude. you should go if you got on with her well. of you wern't close to her then try not to beat yourself up if you dont go
#21
You may not want to see them at such a sad time, but did you ever think that they might want to see you? Do you think your grandmother would want you there? Unity and support at a time like this is what keeps a family strong and is pretty crucial if you plan on having secure ties with your close family and even distant relatives.
I understand and can sympathize with the pain you may be dealing with, but it is important to support everyone who cares at a time like this.

If it isn't going too far out of your way, I strongly suggest attending the funeral; but it is solely your own choice.
#22
When my grandma died, I wouldn't say my goodbyes to her for the first 6 of the 7 days that the body was at the house (Dutch tradition, I think. The body is kept at the house before the funeral so people can say personal farewells). I just shut myself off from the rest of the family for those 6 days. Afterwards I felt a dick because I wasn't there to share with the mourning and the celebration of her life with those that loved her.

Go to the funeral.
#23
im sorry to hear that . but i think that you should go because it would be very nice to pay tribute to someone that you loved. even though its no fun seeing family at such a sad time it is nesscessary because they want you to know you support them
#24
I would go.

My grandfathers funeral was rough and probably the worst experience of my life.

But i would have hated myself for not going.
#25
its really hard to see your family breaking down and crying but you will regret not going later on. I know i hated seeing my mom cry when my grandma died but i had to fight through it.
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#26
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A funeral is supposed to be emotion. It's what they're designed for. Not wanting to see family members makes it entirely selfish because it's not about how you're feeling. You go to a funeral out of respect for the lost soul. When someone close has died you pay your respects - end of.

If you're stressed - not going will make it worse. You shouldn't even thinking about this dilemma.


Why do you have to act like such a stuck up ass? I'd hate to meet you in person if that's how you really talk to people.

You are right about what a funeral is all about but damn, the person's grand mother just died, give him a break.
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Why do you have to act like such a stuck up ass? I'd hate to meet you in person if that's how you really talk to people.

You are right about what a funeral is all about but damn, the person's grand mother just died, give him a break.


Sorry to offend. I'm pretty blunt, like it or not.
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#28
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im sorry to hear that man

but you should go

you'll regret it if you dont

+1.0

and ts, i'm sorry to hear about that man.
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#30
If you don't want to go then don't. I would go if only for a number 1 selfish reason, if you don't get some sort of closure then 6 months from now you'll still feel like she's alive and kicking. Heck, after my grandfather died, for 3 or 4 months after I would sometimes forget ..I'd be like "hey, I should show this to gramps...oh wait...damn...."
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#31
Hey, TS, Sorry for your loss, my man.

You should go though, out of respect for your Grandma.

This isn't about you. Don't be a selfish twat. It's about your grandmother. Go.

Dude, not cool. I understand what you're saying, but this isn't helping. If you're criticising this guy for being generally insensitive, I think you should at least take your own advice. Don't be so aggressive.

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#32
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Hey, TS, Sorry for your loss, my man.

You should go though, out of respect for your Grandma.


Dude, not cool. I understand what you're saying, but this isn't helping. If you're criticising this guy for being generally insensitive, I think you should at least take your own advice. Don't be so aggressive.


Duly noted for next time - see above post.
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#33
sorry to hear it. But seriously, you should go to the funeral. The family needs you in a time like this.
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#35
Im going to the funeral, before its not that I didn't want to go it's just that it would be so damn awkward. I dont want to have an emotional breakdown in front of my family. But I guess i'll have to be strong and just go.

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Im going to the funeral, before its not that I didn't want to go it's just that it would be so damn awkward. I dont want to have an emotional breakdown in front of my family. But I guess i'll have to be strong and just go.


You know, my friend, if you can't emotionally break down in front of the people who love you the most, who can you break down in front of?

Do you honestly think anyone there will think the less of you just because you're upset? Close friends and family's are there to support and comfort you. God knows this world is pretty lonely even with them.
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Im going to the funeral, before its not that I didn't want to go it's just that it would be so damn awkward. I dont want to have an emotional breakdown in front of my family. But I guess i'll have to be strong and just go.


No-one's going to judge you for being upset at the funeral.
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#40
Sorry dude..

Last yearour neighour and a long time family friend died. Funerals are tough but it's better to say your goodbyes than regret it later.
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