Poll: so.... who has more pressure?
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View poll results: so.... who has more pressure?
men
203 65%
women
111 35%
Voters: 314.
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#1
initially, i thought male - problems of getting it up, size, not coming too early etc.

but women also have a lot of media expectations on how they're meant to look, so i can imagine women feel as many insecurities as men

anyway, poll up in a sec. any thoughts?
#2
guys.... i think...

Lolzz you're still a virgin!!!
You loser!!!
Lolz you've got a small penis!
Lolz you can't satisfy her and make her come!!


Most men seem to compromise with girls...
Unless she's fat and ugly.
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#3
Men: size of penis, work rate, length of sexual time, can only orgasm once, does most of the work. Most.
#4
Men. How am I supposed to afford rohypnol on a student's budget?
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#5
i bet if there were any women on UG the results would be different.
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#6
I always thought men as well.
But...women got this in a longshot lol.
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#7
So wait, are we talking about insecure teenage boys and girls or sexually healthy young men and women(18-25)?
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#9
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i bet if there were any women on UG the results would be different.

I agree, but since they're nowhere to be found we are free to skew the poll and make our insecurity problems seem more significant
#11
Well I think women have more pressure put on them about appearance, while guys have more about performance... although I've lately sort of started to prefer more sexually advanced girls over just pretty, dull ones... it's more fun that way
#12
It used to be men...

Nowadays I'd say it's women
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#13
Depends who your friends are as to how much pressure you receive.

But overall, I would say women.
#15
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So wait, are we talking about insecure teenage boys and girls or sexually healthy young men and women(18-25)?
i think there is still pressure and stuff whatever age, just varying degrees of it
#16
SEXUALLY men do. I mean... women just have to lay there...
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but yeah women are put under a lot of pressure from society and the media to look perfect and stuff like that
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#17
i'd say men.
most of the pressure put on women, honestly they put it on themselves.
men however, they have problems that most of the time they have no control over whatsoever, like size.
women really don't have much to worry about sexually, unless they think their boobs are too big/small, which really doesn't make such a big difference when push comes to shove...
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#18
Men are on more pressure because if they dont get the girls they are classed as sad losers and also even if they do they have to work harder to satisfy the woman.
#19
i think men because they're looked at as poon magnets, and if they haven't lost their virginity by a certain time the start getting looked down on but with women the longer they have their virginity the more innocent they are and if they lose their virginity too early they're looked at as *****s. but then again if they don't do anything in a relationshiop they're known as prude but i guess that really isn't that big aof a deal so i'm gonna say men
#20
I've never seen a woman practically bite her own lip off in an attempt not to come.
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#21
Lots of women find the need to resort to eating disorders to make themselves skinny (even if they are perfectly fine looking) just because they always think they look bad.

Men just get self-conscious about their penis size.


I assume the majority of the vote is Men because the majority of you are men male but that is definitely not the right answer.
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#22
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Men: size of penis, work rate, length of sexual time, can only orgasm once, does most of the work. Most.

I can orgasm twice or even 3 times. Hardly anything ever comes out after the first though, but it feels great.

Thats why I like it when girls are on top.
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#23
Men usually have the more active role, plus have higher expectations and more of them. People say there's media expectations on how they should look, but in reality, a lot of us don't care about that and men also have to look after their bodies as well.
#24
I'd say men, but seeing as how I'm not very experienced my I doubt my opinion counts for much
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#25
i think its a vicous circle with guys: we joke about sex and losing our virginity out of insecurity. sowhen someone hasnt lost their virginity, we joke about it, only knowing that the next time we get down n dirty we mayvery well be ****.
#26
Women.

"Suck me off! Come on!"
"Swallow! Please!"
"Take it in the butt! Come on!"
"I want to try without a rubber on ..."
"Do the same thing than this girl in the porn movie!"

And so on...
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#27
I don't think I'll vote yet because whilst the media can have an effect on what women feel like with regards to looks and sex, men possibly have more pressure put on them due to other asshat men. So... I don't know >__<
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#28
What does being skinny have to do with sex? I say that men do. Everything a women does in bed is a "bonus" because all they really have to do is take it like a champ and we'll be happy.
#30
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Everything we do like getting dressed, showering, how we look in general has to do with sex. We naturally try to look good to find a mate for reproducing to keep our species going.
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#31
When you're mature enough to have sex you realise that there shouldn't be any pressure at all - intercourse is about being comfortable with one another and enjoying yourself, not seeing who can cum the hardest or keep going the longest. When you all stop bitching about expectations you'll realise there aren't really any, providing you have any clue where to put it.
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#32
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When you're mature enough to have sex you realise that there shouldn't be any pressure at all - intercourse is about being comfortable with one another and enjoying yourself, not seeing who can cum the hardest or keep going the longest. When you all stop bitching about expectations you'll realise there aren't really any, providing you have any clue where to put it.

Lies!!!
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#34
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When you're mature enough to have sex you realise that there shouldn't be any pressure at all - intercourse is about being comfortable with one another and enjoying yourself, not seeing who can cum the hardest or keep going the longest. When you all stop bitching about expectations you'll realise there aren't really any, providing you have any clue where to put it.

I'm imagining the whole thing like a competition now.

"I bet I can cum harder that you!"

"No way! I can blates do it better!"
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#35
yeah, my doctor told me this joke once.


doctor: are you sexually active young lady?

woman: no, i mostly just lie there
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#36
women just have to be there. us men don't have too many needs.
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#37
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Women.

"Suck me off! Come on!"
"Swallow! Please!"
"Take it in the butt! Come on!"
"I want to try without a rubber on ..."
"Do the same thing than this girl in the porn movie!"

And so on...


I loled at the "Take it in the butt!"
#38
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Women.

"Suck me off! Come on!"
"Swallow! Please!"
"Take it in the butt! Come on!"
"I want to try without a rubber on ..."
"Do the same thing than this girl in the porn movie!"

And so on...


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#39
Probably pretty even.
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#40
Men easy. Women have so many other problems but when it comes to sex, all the pressure is on the man. A woman's appearance has nothing to do with her sexual performance. If the man is even willing to have sex with the woman, he obviously finds her attractive so the pressure should be relieved.
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