Poll: Should I try and repair the friendships, or leave it be?
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View poll results: Should I try and repair the friendships, or leave it be?
Yes.
10 28%
No.
26 72%
Voters: 36.
#1
Mini-story:
I had three best friends who now despise me, because for the space of one school week, I didn't hang out with them. Now, they are telling me that I hang out too much with my girlfriend and keep pulling the bro's before ho's deal on me, even though they never call me to hang out.
Also, they all drink hard liquor almost daily, while I don't.
Do you think it's worth trying to get their friendship back?
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#2
no....not at all
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#4
No. Just go emotionally fps_doug on them.

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#7
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I think they're **** up friends

but, if they are your friends they'll take you back without a fight

+1 if they were true friends they wouldnt care, they'd under stand you have a girl, she need attention
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#9
When stuff like this happens I go with the one with the vagina and boobs.
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#11
i been there. trust me, try n hang otu with the guys. the chick never be worth it...ive lost a band and my whole group of freinds over **** like that, just choose your freinds dude
#12
Make an ultimate alliance! Drink hard liquor with them and your girl! Life is too short for unnecessary conflict! I wish you the best of luck, my friend.
#13
My bestfriend never talks to me anymore because he got a girlfriend, so yes.
Once your girlfriend leaves, you have NOBODY.

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i been there. trust me, try n hang otu with the guys. the chick never be worth it...ive lost a band and my whole group of freinds over **** like that, just choose your freinds dude

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#14
If you aren't marrying her, then friends.


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#16
If they're your best friends, then yes. I got a bud who used to be like a brother to me. one of his psyco bitch girlfriend's friends owe's me 20$ for beer, so I'd ask her, "does that chick have my money?", and she got tired of it, and was like, "maybe you shouldn't hang out with him anymore." so now, not only am I short a friend, he's trying to get all my other friends to stop hanging out with me. Pussy's not worth breaking a bond like that. The chicks not even hot. 300 lbs, at least.
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#17
From the way you've posted and worded everything your friends sound lame, but (no offense) so do you. I somehow doubt you're giving us the whole story here. What thoughtless things had you been doing before this mentioned week? Does "never call me to hang out" only refer to the last week?

If you don't feel comfy hanging around them because they drink a lot, then don't; no point putting yourself in a situation like that. But don't forget that women come and go while good friends are hard to find. Giving a girlfriend attention doesn't mean spending everyday with her or even spending more time with her than your other friends.

Here's a crazy idea, most people overlook for some reason: why not bring your girlfriend to come hang out with your other friends? It amazingly solves everything!


edit* you realize that "yes" and "no" don't work as answers for the question you have posted right?
#18
Try and hang out with them AND your girlfriend. I guess it's kinda up to you to decide what's worth more. Why don't you, your buddies, and your girlfriend hang out together?
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#19
Well since your friends sound like assholes, I say stick with the chick. Also, one week is not long at all, I've hung out with my one friend about twice since he got his current girlfriend about 6 months ago. I also hate that bros before hoes thing, I agree sometimes it's necessary but it's generally used at the completely wrong time. For example, I had made plans to hang out with some chick, then my friend calls me about ten minutes before I leave and asks if I want to hang out. I tell him no, I'm just about to leave to hang out with _______, to which he replies, "You're a ****ing asshole man, haven't you ever heard of bros before hoes?" and I just laughed at him and hung up the phone.
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#20
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From the way you've posted and worded everything your friends sound lame, but (no offense) so do you. I somehow doubt you're giving us the whole story here. What thoughtless things had you been doing before this mentioned week? Does "never call me to hang out" only refer to the last week?

If you don't feel comfy hanging around them because they drink a lot, then don't; no point putting yourself in a situation like that. But don't forget that women come and go while good friends are hard to find. Giving a girlfriend attention doesn't mean spending everyday with her or even spending more time with her than your other friends.

Here's a crazy idea, most people overlook for some reason: why not bring your girlfriend to come hang out with your other friends? It amazingly solves everything!


edit* you realize that "yes" and "no" don't work as answers for the question you have posted right?



Give this man a cookie for everything but the "bring her with" idea. Slap him for that
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#22
Dude...this is pretty much just what recently happened to me.

I chose to more or less end the relationship with three of my friends, of which where 5-7 year old "friendships" and I'm still kind of torn, but I believe it's for the best.

Honestly...even if years were envolved, if they aren't really your friends, than what's the point?

I'd end it now before it gets deeper, best to pull out now that try to push on because as said, if they aren't your friends...than what's the point?

You'll do fine man best of luck!
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#23
depending on your age they prolly arent worth it but unless your planning on marrying her you should prolly put some thought into hanging out with them more
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