#1
Pit... I have a problem...

I keep disrespecting girls... I have a lot of will power but for some reason its like I can't stop myself from looking and wanting when I'm horny

Example: I just cyberd with a chick when my soon to be girlfriend is on vacation. I feel like such an ass...

help me stop before I kill myself...


I want serious answers and serious help only please....Hopefully you have something better to do than make fun/ flame me...
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#2
See a psychiatrist.

Seriously. If this is a problem you can't fix and you don't wanna tell people about it, then see one.
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#3
Quote by ~G{}{}BER~
Pit... I have a problem...

I keep disrespecting girls... I have a lot of will power but for some reason its like I can't stop myself from looking and wanting when I'm horny
it's called hormones, dude. get used to it.
they settle down later, but for now you're on a roller-coaster.


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Example: I just cyberd with a chick when my soon to be girlfriend is on vacation. I feel like such an ass...
soon to be girlfriend? you can't be unfaithful to somebody when you haven't made a commitment.


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help me stop before I kill myself...
a little drastic, don't you think?
cutting off your junk to cure the problem might work, but suicide is never the answer.


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I want serious answers and serious help only please....Hopefully you have something better to do than make fun/ flame me...
it's the Pit, man. enjoy the comedy along with the serious.
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#4
psychologist... fixed... i dont know why people get them mixed up
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#5
Sounds like you're just making a big deal out of nothing.

Take some deep breaths, fap, then see how you feel.
#7
fapping will save the world someday

I know it.
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#8
Quote by SomeoneYouKnew
it's called hormones, dude. get used to it.
they settle down later, but for now you're on a roller-coaster.


1soon to be girlfriend? you can't be unfaithful to somebody when you haven't made a commitment.


2a little drastic, don't you think?
cutting off your junk to cure the problem might work, but suicide is never the answer.


it's the Pit, man. enjoy the comedy along with the serious.



1. THIS IS MY PROBLEM. I love this girl. I know you think "he's 16, he doesnt know what love is... I do.

2. Its not drastic. If thats what it takes... This is how I know I love her.... I'll do anything to give her what she deserves...

I want to live. I want to be what she needs...

I need help... I can't afford a psychologist
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#10
Then chill out and focus on your apparent "love" for her.

Shouldn't be too hard, dude. And at sixteen, a girl's hormones are wild too. She's probably in as much turmoil you are as now, except at every chance she looks at another non-related male.
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#11
Quote by ~G{}{}BER~
1. THIS IS MY PROBLEM. I love this girl. I know you think "he's 16, he doesnt know what love is... I do.

2. Its not drastic. If thats what it takes... This is how I know I love her.... I'll do anything to give her what she deserves...

I want to live. I want to be what she needs...

I need help... I can't afford a psychologist

Yeah bro, you really need to calm down. This is what we call "adolescence". This "adolescence" makes your body change in ways that may seem strange to you physically, but also change you mentally.

Chill out.
#12
I can't live with myself... There's no one else like this? I can't be the only one...

I go a little insane when I'm horny.......Its like I need it....then After I get done.... I look at it and feel like ****... I serisously feel sick to my stomach...

I can't live like this.
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#13
I don't wanna sound like a dick but wanking really does solve a lot of teen hormone-related problems. You would be suprised what large amounts of sexual tension can do to people, even if they think they have lots of control over themselves. Let the cyber thing go too cause if you haven't made a commitment it doesn't count, as stated above. It only counts if it harms the relationship in anyway (even if the other person doesn't know), so if there's no relationship there's no harm done.
#14
I think you need to stop fighting it.....again, hormones.

Every guy has to get his kicks somehow, just look at this entire forum!
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#15
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ur location seems to be my only advice to you

+1 lol

Seriously though. TS should listen to his own god-damned advice

EDIT: Plus you're right. You're not the first and only one in this. Every person has their **** flowing around their brains at some point of their life, so there's no biggie (unless you actually do go and kill yourself[which would be stupid])
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#16
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I don't wanna sound like a dick but wanking really does solve a lot of teen hormone-related problems. You would be suprised what large amounts of sexual tension can do to people, even if they think they have lots of control over themselves. Let the cyber thing go too cause if you haven't made a commitment it doesn't count, as stated above. It only counts if it harms the relationship in anyway (even if the other person doesn't know), so if there's no relationship there's no harm done.


You don't sound like a dick... I know what you're saying... except for the last part....


We are basically dating... I've wanted her for a year and a half almost... And apparently she's wanted me for a while too... for about a month now we've been talking about 2+ hours a day...and she's been on vacation for 2 weeks now (so we havent talked since she left)... I feel terrible... and its not just this example... It's been porn, (i've kicked that) but I still look at girls wrong. When I'm horny I treat them like damn objects...


EDIT: and people keep telling me to calm down... and take my own advice...but I finally snapped... I can't take this anymore. It's either fix it or die. Either way, It's going to stop.
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#17
its those ****ing chemicals runnin through your system, your 16 man. get over it, holy **** its not that big of a deal, in like 6 months ur gunna thinkabout this and be like "dam i was dumb". i honestly dont even understand the problem, are you disrespecting them by looking at them??? thats normal btw

edit:srry for attacking you btw, but its something ive had to deal with myself and its not a big deal really.
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#18
yeh whats been said
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but if your really horny wank so you dont do anything stupid
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#19
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1. THIS IS MY PROBLEM. I love this girl. I know you think "he's 16, he doesnt know what love is... I do.

2. Its not drastic. If thats what it takes... This is how I know I love her.... I'll do anything to give her what she deserves...

I want to live. I want to be what she needs...

I need help... I can't afford a psychologist

No, you don't.
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#20
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#21
Start with telling her everything and initiating a relationship based on total honesty; tell her all you've done wrong and ask for forgiveness, if that's what you do ultimately want. If you don't want forgiveness then have fun spending the rest of your life unhappy.

If she forgives you, you're ok, and you can start down the path you intend. If not, don't worry; it would have never worked anyway because all secrets eventually get out and a relationship based on lies is doomed to failure anyway. If she doesn't forgive you, get over it, salvage what you can but don't try to repeat things as they were, and head down a different path. Be honest with your desire for forgiveness, and realise that it wont be easy to get it.

For all you know she may not have any real problem with it because girls are just as bad as guys in general when it comes to hormonal crap. And stop whining because people hate it. Don't kill yourself either because that's excessively dramatic and will just piss lots of people off, and wont solve anything.
#22
Quote by TooFast
No, you don't.

Yes, I do... I could sit here all ****ing night and argue it but I'll put it into one small post:

It's when you would do anything to make that one special person happy... No matter how much you hurt youself in the process... It's taking bullets (whether metaphorically or litterly) for someone... It's changing anything to put a smile on her face.

Anything.
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#23
Quote by ~G{}{}BER~
Yes, I do... I could sit here all ****ing night and argue it but I'll put it into one small post:

It's when you would do anything to make that one special person happy... No matter how much you hurt youself in the process... It's taking bullets (whether metaphorically or litterly) for someone... It's changing anything to put a smile on her face.

Anything.

Rule number one when it comes to relationships:
DON'T DEFINE LOVE.


Unless your drunk or whatever cause then the rules are totally different.
#24
Quote by AVA_Plus44_182
Start with telling her everything and initiating a relationship based on total honesty; tell her all you've done wrong and ask for forgiveness, if that's what you do ultimately want. If you don't want forgiveness then have fun spending the rest of your life unhappy.

If she forgives you, you're ok, and you can start down the path you intend. If not, don't worry; it would have never worked anyway because all secrets eventually get out and a relationship based on lies is doomed to failure anyway. If she doesn't forgive you, get over it, salvage what you can but don't try to repeat things as they were, and head down a different path. Be honest with your desire for forgiveness, and realise that it wont be easy to get it.

For all you know she may not have any real problem with it because girls are just as bad as guys in general when it comes to hormonal crap. And stop whining because people hate it. Don't kill yourself either because that's excessively dramatic and will just piss lots of people off, and wont solve anything.


Thank you. I'm going to tell her everything when she gets back... I know her, and it's going to hurt her... but I think she will forgive me... I really don't want to hurt her... but like you said, she will eventually be hurt by it...

This is going to be so hard... But I need to. And maybe this will help my problem... maybe when I'm horny an image of her crying will pop into my head and I'll just stop...

And if I can't stop. Then theres one more option....
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#25
AVA_Plus44_182 is giving really good advice. listen to him


first off, its totally normal for adolescents (or any guy tbh) to see women as just objects. we're all horny bastards one way or another. You're going through a period when this is worst than any other time. and trust me. you will almost NEVER get anything from a relationship at this age. whether you like it or not, its gonna end sometime. i've recently gotten out of a relationship that i thought would last forever, but actually it ended because of the stupidest reason, and now that i look back on it. it was a good thing it ended because anything longer would've made me more depended on her before she really ended it for a real reason. trust me, if your relationship even makes to college theres no way you'll come out of that 4 year separation still together, i guarantee you.

so really, take a chill pill, and put all those thoughts of suicide out of your head. no girl, i repeat, NO GIRL is worth taking your own life over. she'll regret putting you in that situation, and you want her to be happy right?
#26
Hey, first of all take 3 deep breaths then listen to my words.

Ok I was in your situation for a while back a long time ago. I thought I was in love with a girl and I ended up kicking the porn habit for a good 6-7 months and I didn't look at another girl with "wrong" thoughts. Then one day I "snapped" as you apparently have and just did, I felt bad. I told her because I felt I needed to and after some tears and frustrated adolescence on her part we got through it. Now I know you think you may love this girl but you've wanted this girl for a long time and you say you would do anything for her?

Just deal with that you're a teenager that'll take "love" differently then what it is. I had the same problem and after a year I didn't feel the same about said girl and we drifted apart and now we barely talk. This girl and I made promises that we would get married, move in together at college, die together, all that garbage. It's all over now though. Take it from me chico you need to chill out and put this in perspective.

The reason you feel like shit is because you realize you just did to yourself what you really wanted to do with her or any other woman for that matter.
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#27
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AVA_Plus44_182 is giving really good advice. listen to him


first off, its totally normal for adolescents (or any guy tbh) to see women as just objects. we're all horny bastards one way or another. You're going through a period when this is worst than any other time. and trust me. you will almost NEVER get anything from a relationship at this age. whether you like it or not, its gonna end sometime. i've recently gotten out of a relationship that i thought would last forever, but actually it ended because of the stupidest reason, and now that i look back on it. it was a good thing it ended because anything longer would've made me more depended on her before she really ended it for a real reason. trust me, if your relationship even makes to college theres no way you'll come out of that 4 year separation still together, i guarantee you.

so really, take a chill pill, and put all those thoughts of suicide out of your head. no girl, i repeat, NO GIRL is worth taking your own life over. she'll regret putting you in that situation, and you want her to be happy right?


Thats the thing: We're not gonna date until we're out of school... And only then if we're still this close.... And I'm not gonna lose her...

I probably won't go to college so it won't be that much of separation... I've thought of these things...

And I know you still disagree... And you might be right.... But I refuse to let myself believe this.
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#28
Are you still planning on killing yourself?
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#29
Quote by ~G{}{}BER~
Thank you. I'm going to tell her everything when she gets back... I know her, and it's going to hurt her... but I think she will forgive me... I really don't want to hurt her... but like you said, she will eventually be hurt by it...

This is going to be so hard... But I need to. And maybe this will help my problem... maybe when I'm horny an image of her crying will pop into my head and I'll just stop...

And if I can't stop. Then theres one more option....


seriously dude!!! what male at 16 doesnt watch porn?? its just hormones
get over it
#30
Quote by SHAUNYSHAUN1234
seriously dude!!! what male at 16 doesnt watch porn?? its just hormones
get over it

This guy is right man, it's just the truth. And sometimes the truth feels really good and is actually not that bad to do.

/wanking reference.
#31
youre gonna make a girl cry so you can "try" to control your hormones???

*sarcasm* yeah, sounds like true love to me *sarcasm*

dude get over yourself and stop being such a drama queen
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#32
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youre gonna make a girl cry so you can "try" to control your hormones???

*sarcasm* yeah, sounds like true love to me *sarcasm*

dude get over yourself and stop being such a drama queen


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