Poll: What should I do?
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View poll results: What should I do?
Go back up north
10 77%
Stay where you are.
3 23%
Voters: 13.
#1
Hi guys.

My head is everywhere at the moment with a bit of an issue.

About 3 months ago, I moved down from Yorkshire to live in Birmingham since there's more jobs and there were old issues with people up there which made alot of things quite uncomfortable (old mates fallen out with and insane exs). Thing is now I've been here a while, I've lost my job, me and my ex split up and my mates who would be down here for uni are back up north for the summer. I am hearing from a few interviews on Monday so the job thing may be sorted. I've started seeing someone else, but I'm missing my old mates and going out with them all. My girlfriend says she really wants to leave Birmingham soon so I think she may go with me.

What do you think I should do because I really can't decide and my mates don't know either.

Thank you.
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#3
leave. start a new life. be happy
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#5
This isn't our decision. You know all the facts, and you're the one who will be affected by the outcome, asking the pit will be a bad idea.
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#7
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leave. start a new life. be happy


That was the idea. Hasn't done anything spectacular.
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#8
move somewhere completely different away from both of the places and start a new life with your girlfriend
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#9
Go somewhere completely different, you're not too happy where you are, and you couldn't have been to happy where you were before, so try somewhere new. You've nothing to loose...
#10
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This isn't our decision. You know all the facts, and you're the one who will be affected by the outcome, asking the pit will be a bad idea.

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But, if I had to choose, I would say go back up North.
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#11
Move somewhere totally different, perferably where you can't speak the language. Does wonders for your perspective. Cambodia would be a good new start.
#12
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#13
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This isn't our decision. You know all the facts, and you're the one who will be affected by the outcome, asking the pit will be a bad idea.


It'd be foolish for him to make a decision based purely on a bunch of kids on the internet, but there's no harm asking for some advice.
#14
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This isn't our decision. You know all the facts, and you're the one who will be affected by the outcome, asking the pit will be a bad idea.


I know this, I just wanted some opinions and advice really. I wasn't going to use the poll as my decision. Sorry if I came across that way.
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#15
if you can have your friends and your girlfriend up north, go for it. You see, there is no place greater than Yorkshire (particularly West Yorkshire).
I am moving from Yorkshire to Birmingham for University soon, and it will be a sad occasion.
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#16
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if you can have your friends and your girlfriend up north, go for it. You see, there is no place greater than Yorkshire (particularly West Yorkshire).
I am moving from Yorkshire to Birmingham for University soon, and it will be a sad occasion.


I promise you one thing mate (being from West Yorkshire myself), you will love this place.
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#17
leave birmingham are you mad, na even though its a class city we both live in id go back if i was u happyness beats jobs any day dude
#18
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leave birmingham are you mad, na even though its a class city we both live in id go back if i was u happyness beats jobs any day dude


I see what you mean man. Thing is, I don't care what job I'm doing aslong as I'm having a laugh. I just don't know anyone down here and I have to wait a while for my mate to back down for uni to introduce me about. I almost resorted to trying to chat to people in that park near snow hill.
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