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Well pit its time for me to complain and rant about my personal problems once again. Long post ahead.

For the past week my brother, sister, and mom have been out of town. The three people in my life I can't stand. They're not supportive of me at all. Whenever I learn something new on guitar or do something cool i'll show them and they'll just say "big deal". My mom kicked me out of my room (my brother and I share) so i've slept on the couch for the past two years of my life.

My mom doesn't let me be me. I dress how I want. Right now its semi-slim jeans and a smashing pumpkins shirt. Nothing bad right? Nope, she hates it. Meanwhile my brother wants to get a mohawk. She says "Ok, i'll do it for you." and does it. Shes OCD, only about me. All she does is bug me about my personal hygeine to the point where I take 3 showers a day. My friends have all said shes a paranoid bitch, and so do I.

I recently failed a couple classes in school and attended a make-up session that consisted of a month of summer. Which I ended up completing with two A's. My dad who is proud of me for doing so well in summer school and for expanding my musical knowledge so greatly throughout the year, he called my grandma in L.A. and told her to go to Guitar Center (We don't have one locally) and buy me a new guitar.

Anyways my mom goes to L.A. on vacation for my brother and sister (not me), and say they'll bring it back for me. So I stay home with my dad (he had to work) and we have a good time. We watched videos of live concerts, and other stuff together.

When my mom gets back im eagerly awaiting my guitar and so is my dad. My mom says that she doesn't think I earned it. So my dad gets pissed and starts yelling at her. He says hes tired of her treating me like garbage and my siblings as gods. So he says he wants a divorce.

While they were arguing I desided to get on the pit to cheer me up, but before I do that I check my email. Its from my girlfriend. "HI! Wats ^??? I wana brak ^ sorry"

So know my parents are fighting, my sisters crying, and im here without a guitar. My friend is emailing me and helping me. Thanks for listening to my ranting pit. I feel better. Tomorrows a new day after all.
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#5
I hear you, I absolutely hate being a middle child.
My older sister gets EVERYTHING handed to her (she graduated), and my little sis gets babied to death and isn't expected to do anything.
While Older sis is off at work and baby sis can't do alot of work because she's 11 I'm stuck with a bunch of crap to deal with.

EDIT: If I knew where you were I would buy you a new guitar, personally, I think you deserve it since you have to live with that sh*t.


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#6
well. at least if they get a divorce you can move in with yo dad............you could even get a bed!
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#8
so your girlfriend broke up with you? if so, sorry to hear it. im also sorry your treated like that. and especially sad for you that you didnt get your guitar. man, you need a **** load of beer and a hooker. and maybe a threesome with 2 really hawt chicks.
#9
I think if your girlfriend decides to type 'I wana brak ^' then you're better off without her, hell, she didn't even have the decency to say it to your face.

On the family front at least your Dad is standing up for you, if your parents do end up getting a divorce then you ought to stick with him.
#10
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well. at least if they get a divorce you can move in with yo dad............you could even get a bed!


it may sound bad now but this guy is right, theres a silver lining
#11
if u wanna feel betr, just remember that ur dad was willing to ditch his spouse, the person he was supposed to be with 4ever, so that u could b happier. That's pretty sweet
That does suck, but hopefully that helps
#12
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When my mom gets back im eagerly awaiting my guitar and so is my dad. My mom says that she doesn't think I earned it. So my dad gets pissed and starts yelling at her. He says hes tired of her treating me like garbage and my siblings as gods. So he says he wants a divorce.




Dude, same problem here
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#13
Thanks guys.

My dad just came in the room gave me a hug and said he loves me for the first time in his life. Im going with him.

Its a B.C. Rich Avenge BTW.
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bro u are definately gay


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A backstabbin' bitch who calls himself the 'oracle'?


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UG loves me so much. Do you?

MY NAME IS JACOB. CALL ME THAT.
#14
Sorry dude, I had a lot of problems with my mom too. Hopefully you're mom will either get the message and start giving you some respect or your parents will get divorced and you can live with your dad.
#15
Wow that truly blows, but here's a few points I got for you

- Don't let you mother's constant lack of approval bring you down, YOU know how cool what you're doing is (guitar wise), and that you're lifestyle is perfectly OK...so don't be one of those ppl who don't end up having any self esteem or something

- At least you're not alone, be grateful you got your pops who's willing to stand up for you and sees you as a special person

- Don't worry about the gf thing, I got dumped on my 19th birthday 2 years ago and it hurt like hell but after a while I realized that although it hurt, I was going to be ok and after a few weeks I did start feeling ok in fact the act of her dumping me motivated me to get in better shape, practice guitar more and get better in school...in a sense I was showing her what she lost because I made myself into an in shape musician with a well thought out career ahead of him.

- Keep your chin up dude, we go through the bad parts of life so we can appreciate the good time all the more. So don't emo out and end up thinking the world is a terrible place and everything is against you.
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Thanks guys.

My dad just came in the room gave me a hug and said he loves me for the first time in his life. Im going with him.

Its a B.C. Rich Avenge BTW.

Nice
#17
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Thanks guys.

My dad just came in the room gave me a hug and said he loves me for the first time in his life. Im going with him.

Its a B.C. Rich Avenge BTW.

Ah well, it's just B.C. Rich, you're not missing out on much anyway.
/stereotype.

Well at least you get to leave you mum who quite frankly should be auditioning for the mother's part in 'Cinderella' since she's got the act down so well.
#18
Please....for the love of tits on a whale ... DON'T EMO OUT!!!!!
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Ah well, it's just B.C. Rich, you're not missing out on much anyway.
/stereotype.

Well at least you get to leave you mum who quite frankly should be auditioning for parts in cinderella since she's got the act down so well.


Not much, but beats the crappy Target exclusive I have right now.
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You disgust me.


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bro u are definately gay


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MY NAME IS JACOB. CALL ME THAT.
#20
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Not much, but beats the crappy Target exclusive I have right now.

It'll just make you appreciate good guitars all the more, everybody I know who went out and bought an expensive guitar for their first guitar either doesn't appreciate it or quit after a few months.
#21
Dang, your life sucks man, well at least your getting a new guitar.

My mum complains all the the time and I get really freaking annoyed when she does, she also tells me what to do all the time and it gets on my nerves.

Well at least you won't be living with her forever
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#22
my mom did that..except she was stealing money from me
wow us middle children really do get ****ed over!! ive got an older sis and a younger sis and basically the same thing
except the bitch went with another man and now im really happy without her

so you should be alright
#23
My friend has this problem. Only it's both parents. She was really pissed about it . Which makes me sad.
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#24
It sucks being a middle kid.

No im not going to go emo, im to not emo for that.

After the pit im actually excited to leave.

My lifes not that bad. I've got great friends, dad who loves me for the world, new guitar, and im not working a slave mine in China.
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You disgust me.


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bro u are definately gay


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A backstabbin' bitch who calls himself the 'oracle'?


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UG loves me so much. Do you?

MY NAME IS JACOB. CALL ME THAT.
#25
Quote by Silent_Jester13
It sucks being a middle kid.

No im not going to go emo, im to not emo for that.

After the pit im actually excited to leave.

My lifes not that bad. I've got great friends, dad who loves me for the world, new guitar, and im not working a slave mine in China.

yeah, it sucks being a middle kid, but as long as you're happy everything is alright
#26
Quote by Silent_Jester13
It sucks being a middle kid.

No im not going to go emo, im to not emo for that.

After the pit im actually excited to leave.

My lifes not that bad. I've got great friends, dad who loves me for the world, new guitar, and im not working a slave mine in China.


thats the spirit man. keep it up things will get better
im gonna break the trend here and say that my mom is like that to me, and im the first child
#27
Stick with your dad man he seems real cool.

BTW that Avenge SOB looks very sexy.
#30
Quote by Silent_Jester13
It sucks being a middle kid.

No im not going to go emo, im to not emo for that.

After the pit im actually excited to leave.

My lifes not that bad. I've got great friends, dad who loves me for the world, new guitar, and im not working a slave mine in China.


Now I just need to find a way out of this Chinese slave mine........
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#31
The worst part of all is the guitar part. Good on your dad though for finally standing up for you.
#32
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Well pit its time for me to complain and rant about my personal problems once again. Long post ahead.

For the past week my brother, sister, and mom have been out of town. The three people in my life I can't stand. They're not supportive of me at all. Whenever I learn something new on guitar or do something cool i'll show them and they'll just say "big deal".
cool.
so the three of them got a vacation away from you and you got had a week free from them.
win-win.

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My mom kicked me out of my room (my brother and I share) so i've slept on the couch for the past two years of my life.
you must be some piece of work to get yourself kicked out of your room for two years.
i'm impressed.

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My mom doesn't let me be me. I dress how I want. Right now its semi-slim jeans and a smashing pumpkins shirt. Nothing bad right? Nope, she hates it. Meanwhile my brother wants to get a mohawk. She says "Ok, i'll do it for you." and does it. Shes OCD, only about me. All she does is bug me about my personal hygeine to the point where I take 3 showers a day. My friends have all said shes a paranoid bitch, and so do I.
must be horrible for your mom having a son who's friends all call her a bitch.
i'm surprised she even lets you in the house.

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I recently failed a couple classes in school and attended a make-up session that consisted of a month of summer. Which I ended up completing with two A's. My dad who is proud of me for doing so well in summer school and for expanding my musical knowledge so greatly throughout the year, he called my grandma in L.A. and told her to go to Guitar Center (We don't have one locally) and buy me a new guitar.
would have been much cooler if you had passed the classes in the first place.
but you did get A's for the make-up session. good job. you're improving.

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Anyways my mom goes to L.A. on vacation for my brother and sister (not me), and say they'll bring it back for me. So I stay home with my dad (he had to work) and we have a good time. We watched videos of live concerts, and other stuff together.
bonding is good.

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When my mom gets back im eagerly awaiting my guitar and so is my dad. My mom says that she doesn't think I earned it. So my dad gets pissed and starts yelling at her. He says hes tired of her treating me like garbage and my siblings as gods. So he says he wants a divorce.
there's probably much more involved than your moms treatment of you in his wanting a divorce. don't read too much into that alone. your dad is kinda dumb, though. he could have easily ordered the guitar on-line. but he probably just wanted one more thing to yell at her about, anyway.

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While they were arguing I desided to get on the pit to cheer me up, but before I do that I check my email. Its from my girlfriend. "HI! Wats ^??? I wana brak ^ sorry"
were you already whining to her about your mom? girls don't like whiners. maybe that had something to do with here wanting to break up with you.

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So know my parents are fighting, my sisters crying, and im here without a guitar. My friend is emailing me and helping me. Thanks for listening to my ranting pit. I feel better. Tomorrows a new day after all.
you're welcome.

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Thanks guys.

My dad just came in the room gave me a hug and said he loves me for the first time in his life. Im going with him.

Its a B.C. Rich Avenge BTW.
don't count your chickens just yet.
they haven't signed divorce papers and even if they do,
lawyers are expensive, alimony is expensive, child support is expensive.
chances are, your dad won't have the extra cash to buy you the guitar.

but cool that your dad said he loves you.
hang on to that when times are tough.
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#33
Sorry to hear that bro.
How old are you? I have a similar situation at home with the relationship between me and my mother. What I do is just try to always have something to look forward to. In the long-term there's moving out with my best friend next year and getting my restricted licence. In the short-term I just try spend as much time as I can with my friends doing what I love.
Hang in there bro.
You're not alone.
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#34
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Sorry to hear that bro.
How old are you? I have a similar situation at home with the relationship between me and my mother. What I do is just try to always have something to look forward to. In the long-term there's moving out with my best friend next year and getting my restricted licence. In the short-term I just try spend as much time as I can with my friends doing what I love.
Hang in there bro.
You're not alone.


Im 14, yeah i'll be fine. Two young to think about anything. My friends (and bandmates) are trying to cheer me up. My bassist just said he's going to host a show at his house in honor of me, and is inviting all the chicks he can.

As the singer/guitarist, I think i'll be busy.
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You disgust me.


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bro u are definately gay


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A backstabbin' bitch who calls himself the 'oracle'?


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UG loves me so much. Do you?

MY NAME IS JACOB. CALL ME THAT.
#35
I respect you.


You're the first person I've EVER seen who can accept that happening to them with that much ease.

You've earned my respect

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#36
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I respect you.


You're the first person I've EVER seen who can accept that happening to them with that much ease.

You've earned my respect


Thanks man. That really put a smile on my face.
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You disgust me.


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bro u are definately gay


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A backstabbin' bitch who calls himself the 'oracle'?


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I AM GOING TO HAVE TO REFER TO THE FIRST QUOTE IN YOUR SIGNATURE



UG loves me so much. Do you?

MY NAME IS JACOB. CALL ME THAT.
#37
wow, what a gay way to break up with someone, "lol lts brk up, l8r!!"
As in, gobias a cup of coffee
#38
hmm seeing your situation you should be glad they are divorcing!
you need to get away from that woman asap!

Never had that problem btw I am the second of four children.
I have to do most work in the house because my sister doesn't live here anymore but hey!
I get most money and stuff (might be because I am really smart and don't argue a lot, in contradiction to the smaller two )

btw. why don't you go on a roadtrip to get your guitar yourself? Your grandma bought it right? (or have I misread your story, too long to remember xd)
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#39
It probably seems childish and immature, but make living hard for your mom and siblings. Seriously. Just do things around the house that they hate and whatnot, see how they react to it.

...Question, though. Are you the eldest?

edit: also, your ex seems like a retard. You're not missing out on much.
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It probably seems childish and immature, but make living hard for your mom and siblings. Seriously. Just do things around the house that they hate and whatnot, see how they react to it.

...Question, though. Are you the eldest?

edit: also, your ex seems like a retard. You're not missing out on much.


She was always really stupid. (Im being modest on that)

No, im just going to be quiet and try to stay out of the way until I leave.
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You disgust me.


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bro u are definately gay


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A backstabbin' bitch who calls himself the 'oracle'?


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I AM GOING TO HAVE TO REFER TO THE FIRST QUOTE IN YOUR SIGNATURE



UG loves me so much. Do you?

MY NAME IS JACOB. CALL ME THAT.
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