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#1
She doesn't have the money for a judicial bypass and an abortion (her parents can't know, hence the JB), and she smokes 9-12 cigarettes a day, and coke about once a week. She just now found out, and I've been trying to convince her to stop the drugs and smoking, but even being pregnant won't convince her to stop.. She plans to "drug the baby to death" or something stupid. What should I do to help her? She's not that good of a friend, but she obviously needs a LOT of help, and I don't just want to sit and watch her waste her life away.

She should be on Maury >_<

It's actually funny, she brags about how she doesn't smoke pot anymore, but she's still on coke and smokes all of the time in front of people. But please take this seriously, despite making horrible choices, she still needs real, honest, serious answers, and mental/emotional support.
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#4
Some people are destined to **** up. Send her to rehab, tell her to cut the crap. there's not much you can do...
#8
Intervention?
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#10
How the hell can your 14 year old friend afford coke and cigarettes? And her parents ARE going to find out...deliveries in the hospital aren't cheap.
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#11
No, but the father did break up with her as soon as he found out.

She skipped the pill for 3 days, which according to her is one day over the 'limit', which she did because she forgot them in St. Louis when she went to Cleveland for a couple days, and that window just happened to be perfectly synced with the swimming of the man's soldiers.

EDIT: ^^^ to the posts about me supposedly being the father.

And yes, I realized this is really ****ed up. She needs help, that's why I'm looking for answers for her, because she obviously can't do it herself. So please no flaming
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#13
wow only 14...good luck with that. That baby will probably die or be born messed up with that kind of lifestyle.
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Tell her parents.
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#17
yeah, I say go with rehab. if she can't get an abortion, the best thing to do is to take care of the baby. put it up for adoption or whatever. best of luck to her
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#18
2 words for you my friend: FALCON PUNCH!

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How the hell can your 14 year old friend afford coke and cigarettes? And her parents ARE going to find out...deliveries in the hospital aren't cheap.


Also, she might begin to look a little bit larger, due to the fact that she has a human being inside of her.
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If you want to do her a favor, tell her parents.


Would it be any less honorable if I got her parents to know.. anonymously?

I agree with you, her parents would be able to help with everything. They can finance an abortion, they can get her rehab (I don't know if her drug use is so bad that it requires rehab, but she needs to quit smoking), and they can talk her through everything. I'm just kinda iffy on her hating me for quite a long time, if that makes me such a bad person. Which... it kinda does.
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#22
dude, don't try to take all this into your hands. Let some more people know that can REALLY help her out with you, not us. Sorry man. You're in a toughy. Good luck. Keep a straight head.
#23
Go to her parents. She is obviously not able to make her own decisions so she needs them to make them for her (assuming they aren't terrible people). If her parents are worthless then you need to go to another adult, perhaps someone at your school.
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Also, she might begin to look a little bit larger, due to the fact that she has a human being inside of her.

What are you talking about. Everyone knows that babies come from storks delivering them to your front door.
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Would it be any less honorable if I got her parents to know.. anonymously?

I agree with you, her parents would be able to help with everything. They can finance an abortion, they can get her rehab (I don't know if her drug use is so bad that it requires rehab, but she needs to quit smoking), and they can talk her through everything. I'm just kinda iffy on her hating me for quite a long time, if that makes me such a bad person. Which... it kinda does.



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#30
Tell her goddamn parents.
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#32
tell her parents. and make it clear that you aren't the father, 'cause shotgun shells are painful.

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#33
u gotta kill her, tie a cement block to her feet, and throw her in the river...... its the only way
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If you want to do her a favor, tell her parents.

+ A million.

Her parents have to know, as they can get her help.
#39
some people just dont get it man

id say sit down and try to talk to her one last time
my opinion is she wont listen to you if you try to get her to tell some authority figure, and i dont really think its your place to tell someone for her
dont get too worked up about it, its not your fault and if she wont listen...

i dont know what id do in this situation, its really hard
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#40
she can afford coke, but can't afford an abortion??!!?!?

Flawed logic my friend. Anyway, abortion is wrong, so i wouldn't suggest it anyway. Send that ho to rehab