Poll: Girlfriends being bi
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no i think its hot as ****!
53 29%
eh, it realy doesnt bother me
21 11%
i kinda feel the same way
24 13%
i consider it cheating
87 47%
Voters: 185.
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#1
i want all of UG's opinion on this, not just those in the relationship thread.

To all of UG who have girlfriends, who say their bi, do/would you find it unattractive to see them with another girl while there with you? im talking about when you and your girl have been together for a while, and are actually in love, etc. I believe that when your in a meaningful relationship with a girl, their sexual and emotional interest should only be with the person they say they love.

I dont care that she says shes bi, but i consider it cheating if she messes around with another chick while with me.

SOOO, i ask all of UG, do you agree with me at all, or in anyway?
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#3
as long as i can get in on the action as well, im fine with it. that being said, let the perv flaming begin.
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#4
yeah i agree its chaeting, not saying i dont like it though, if i found out my gf was bi i would ask in on watching it LOL
#6
It's only cheating if they don't do it with you.
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#7
i myself how ever...................would be pretty uncomfortable about thisand is IS cheating yes

because if shes with you.. bi or not....why would she want to go and kiss another person...wether it be of the same sex or not
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#8
If I had a bi gf, I'd tell her that I wouldn't want her to fool around with either sex. But that's just me, I'm weird when it comes to relationships.
#9
i might find it slightly hot, but its still cheating and i dont think id approve of it. i mean if we are in a relationship, she shouldnt be doing anything like that with men or women.
#10
why the **** would it not be cheating? I don't give a **** about your stupid sexual orientation, if you're in a relationship with someone and they have some type of sex with another person i would consider it cheating.
#11
DO IT FAGGOT!!!!ONEONE111

but seriously, is that not a huge turn-on for you? I mean sure if she was doing other chicks behind your back but most guys would love it if their g/f would let them have a 3some with another girl, just saying
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#12
i let my gfs fool around with all the other women they want, cant see why one would care.

i voted that it was hot
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#14
It would be hot, but cheating is cheating, no matter how much I want it to happen.
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#17
Everyone always says "I'd totally want a threesome dude!!!!", but anyone in a meaningful relationship with someone should be heartbroken that their girlfriend wants to be with another girl. It's cheating, no matter how you look at it. I'd be devastated if my girlfriend all of a sudden wanted to be with a girl while we were together.

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#18
Depends if she was honest about it or not. I wouldn't care a bit as long as she didn't show emotional attatchment/preference or made an annoying habit out of it. Cheating is more about lying than the actual act of having sex with another person. Plus I'd probably try to finagle myself a three-way.
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#19
I went out with a bi girl about a 10 or 11 months ago.

It sucked hard. Because you have the girl, but then there's some crazy lesbian who's all up in your face about backing off the girl she wants.
#20
They're not bi, they're greedy. IMO


But I guess it would be cheating, all in the eye of the beholder really.

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#22
some of the main reasons im totally against it, is because

1. you have the worry about the possibility of your girl developing feelings with that other girl, thus creating a problem in your relationship.
2. you have no idea if that girl is clean or not, thus making your girl 'unclean'.
3. she says shes in love with you, yet still wants to go over a 'friends' house to **** 0_o

there are a few other reasons but i cant remember them right now <///>~

i have talked to my girl before about it, and ALMOST broke up with her after 7 months. This random girl whom i will call, H, who she really doesnt know too well, but knows, lol, is bi and really pisses me off because she is always flirtin with my girl and she has even told me that H wants to **** her. (i dont see how they can '****' since no penis is involved lol) and my girl told me she was going over her H's house to spend the night (their both 16), and i kinda flipped because my girl knows and has know exactly where i stand with this since we started goin out, and a bunch of **** got started. it was bad. lol but were good now.

+ H blew her off that night. she never called her for her to come over, or she lied about something??
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#23
why can't you have like a 3 way relationship
both girls bi, everyones attracted to each other ITS ALL GOOD
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as long as i can get in on the action as well, im fine with it. that being said, let the perv flaming begin.

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#26
It's cool. I find it very kinky. I can watch and/or I can join.


As long as she doesn't abuse it, I'm completely fine with it.
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#27
I have had two bi girlfriends, and they did that **** all the time. They are not worth it in my opinion. Both times they slept around with chicks behind my back and then failed to see a problem when I confronted them with it. I would think yea maybe it is just this chick if it happened once...but twice!!?!? And they reacted exactly the same. Get yourself a woman who only likes teh penis and is satisfied with yours.
#28
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I have had two bi girlfriends, and they did that **** all the time. They are not worth it in my opinion. Both times they slept around with chicks behind my back and then failed to see a problem when I confronted them with it. I would think yea maybe it is just this chick if it happened once...but twice!!?!? And they reacted exactly the same. Get yourself a woman who only likes teh penis and is satisfied with yours.

I'd rather have a girl who is satisfied with my penis, other girls, and who I can trust. Unlike those girls you speak of.
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#29
If I could get in with her and her girl-mate.. then I'd be all for it
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#30
I've heard nothing but horror stories from people who have had threesomes. Yea in theory they sound great, but I think the repercussions on a serious relationship are to great. Now if you pick up two drunk college sluts and could give a damn then by all means threesome ftw. Just not with a person you deeply care about and want a lasting relationship with.
#31
anyone that doesnt think that its totally awesome, has never been in a threesome with a girl they truly love, and one of her random hoe friends
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#32
well would it be okay for the boyfriend to have sex with men like would that be okay ?
ionno its kinda like cheating
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#33
well ive never had a girlfriend but when i do id think it would be kind of hot to see them kiss and stuff but i would eventually get jealous that she was focusing her attention on someone else and not me, i wouldnt get too upset about it, but if it was a relation ship id consider it cheating.
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#34
My GF is bi, she has never invited a girl to join when its just me and her but I wouldnt mind as long as she is hot.
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#35
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Everyone always says "I'd totally want a threesome dude!!!!", but anyone in a meaningful relationship with someone should be heartbroken that their girlfriend wants to be with another girl. It's cheating, no matter how you look at it. I'd be devastated if my girlfriend all of a sudden wanted to be with a girl while we were together.

I'd totally want a threesome dude!!!!

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#36
My chicks the same way, shes always like, "Oh Id **** that chick" to which I reply "No comment", cuz Ive been down that path of agreeing, and the next words outta her mouth are "Oh so shes hotter then me?"....

Anywho, not to digress to much, just jump in there with her.
If shes gotta prob with that, then tell her ass no, and that its cheating.
Explain if you both do it, its some consentual thing, blah blah bull****,
and youre both happy.

On a side note, I havent been with 2 chicks, cuz my friends dating the one I was gunna 3 way it up with, and EVERYTHING he touches in my eyes instantly becomes useless, and ugly.

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#38
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On a side note, I havent been with 2 chicks, cuz my friends dating the one I was gunna 3 way it up with, and EVERYTHING he touches in my eyes instantly becomes useless, and ugly.

Hes a bassist.

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#39
Well my girlfriend told me her first friend she had when she moved to my town (probably 5 or so years ago) asked her to help her learn how to make out, my girlfriend considered helping. She wasn't going to do it because she wanted to, but to help her friend out... she ended up not helping because she was uncomfortable with it, and i'm glad she didn't.

its not that I dont think bi or lesbian girls are hot, its just extremely awkward when its your girlfriend doing that.
#40
Hit it and quit it.

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