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#1
I was at the pub with 4 guys, 4 girls last night. Most of the people there were single, but have had relationships before.

We got onto the subject of faithfulness, and we were talking about a girl we know who said she came 'this close' to cheating on her boyfriend, as if it was some kind of achievement. Me and the guys I was with had a good laugh and made some slut jokes.

Anyway, one of the girls who was there said 'but it's hard to restrain yourself from cheating when you have a boyfriend'

to which I replied 'what...?' And the other 3 girls agreed with her. To generalise, these are A student, shy types, and people I would assume to be completely faithful in a long term relationship, but no. They all said it's hard not to cheat, if the opportunity arises.

Me and the guys there were completely opposed to this, and have never felt that way. I was really suprised by what they said, is this mentality more common in girls than I thought?
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#2
It is... If you think you spend too much time looking at girls' boobs and asses, go figure how much time girls spend looking at other guys even when they have a boyfriend.
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#3


You seriously just made me think of my gf...
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#4
To be honest, if a girl ever said that to me, I'd slap her upside the head. It's not "hard" not to cheat. It's actually ridiculously easy. See, the trick is to not be a slut.
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#5
Maybe the girls you hang round with/attract are just sluts...

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To be honest, if a girl ever said that to me, I'd slap her upside the head. It's not "hard" not to cheat. It's actually ridiculously easy. See, the trick is to not be a slut.


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To be honest, if a girl ever said that to me, I'd slap her upside the head. It's not "hard" not to cheat. It's actually ridiculously easy. See, the trick is to not be a slut.


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#8
Get over it? I've cheated on all my girlfriends. If that makes me a cunt, so what?
#9
Yup, girls are like that....I know from experience just how prone they are to cheating.

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To be honest, if a girl ever said that to me, I'd slap her upside the head. It's not "hard" not to cheat. It's actually ridiculously easy. See, the trick is to not be a slut.


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isnt there a law against not shaving? thats somewere in our constitution. i think it goes something like a girl maybe be a freak in the sheets but no be wild down stairs is treason and for that she will be beheaded.-good old Benjamin F.

#11
So you're saying 4 woman who have not actually cheated but find it hard not too (but they never said they do) are all sluts?
#12
I obviously can't prove it but I haven't cheated and I will never cheat. It's disgusting and pointless.
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#13
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I obviously can't prove it but I haven't cheated and I will never cheat. It's disgusting and pointless.


Honestly, I like you more and more the more you post in these threads

No, I'm not being an asskisser, I just thought I'd say that.

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#14
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Get over it? I've cheated on all my girlfriends. If that makes me a cunt, so what?


Obviously you didn't care for any of them or their feelings. It's not about if it makes you a ****, it's about if you have any idea what kind of pain or deceit they could've felt. Providing the relationships meant something.
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To be honest, if a girl ever said that to me, I'd slap her upside the head. It's not "hard" not to cheat. It's actually ridiculously easy. See, the trick is to not be a slut.



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#16
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Honestly, I like you more and more the more you post in these threads

No, I'm not being an asskisser, I just thought I'd say that.

Thank you ^__^;


Also, on the other hand, those girls that you were with sounded like they may have had a combined IQ of 12 so I wouldn't pay too much attention to what they say.
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#17
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Obviously you didn't care for any of them or their feelings. It's not about if it makes you a ****, it's about if you have any idea what kind of pain or deceit they could've felt. Providing the relationships meant something.
They survive. Seriously, it's not a big deal. Fidelity is massively overrated.
#18
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Get over it? I've cheated on all my girlfriends. If that makes me a cunt, so what?


You know, I really don't like you, you always make yourself look like a douche whenever you post and bring a new dimention of ignorance to threads. It's assholes like you that give guys a bad name, and with a philosophy like that, you deserve to never have a successful relationship; seeing as you wont take them seriously in the first place.

TS, I know exactly what youre talking about and its very frusterating. Its difficult to trust girls in relationships for this very reason. But to solve this problem, you need to do three things;

You need to keep her sexually satisfied so she doesn't feel the need to go to other guys for sexual attention.

You need to make sure that the girl knows that you won't put up with her ****ing around.

And before the above two, you need to make sure that the girl has some decent morals and knows how to act in relationships before you get involved.
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Get over it? I've cheated on all my girlfriends. If that makes me a cunt, so what?


Is it wrong that I like you more now that I know you've cheated on all your girlfriends?


People get so pissy about infidelity that I actually like it because it upsets people so much. Maybe that makes me childish but I don't really care. You people need to chill the fuck out and realise it isn't as great a crime as you make it out to be.

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To be honest, if a girl ever said that to me, I'd slap her upside the head. It's not "hard" not to cheat. It's actually ridiculously easy. See, the trick is to not be a slut.


If it was easy, most people wouldn't fail to do it. It is not slutty to be attracted to more than one person at once.
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#21
You guys are making me think of my gf...

But her last bf cheated on her, so hopefully she's completely against it or whatever.

At least I hope so.
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#22
...uh...

It was probably just those few friends of yours that were sluts. I'm sure most girls are not like that. I wouldn't generalize an entire sex from just four people and their opinions.

But that's just me.
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#24
They survive


Yeah they do, but that's like saying you got shot fifteen times and survived. Yeah you're still alive, but it hurt like hell.

Fidelity is massively overrated


So you wouldn't care if your gf went and fuked a guy right in front of you?
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#25
i think it depends on the person and isn't fair to generalize about an entire gender based on what 4 girls said

edit: dammit, IHATECHILDREN said it before me
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#26
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If it was easy, most people wouldn't fail to do it. It is not slutty to be attracted to more than one person at once.


You can be attracted to more than one person without actually acting on that attraction behind your partner's back.
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#27
it is not that a women looks for cheating, but it is no longer the stereotype that men cheat only. (ps i am a female). it is just become ok for females to talk about there sex life in the open. think of that, it has always been the men who rewarded by peers for sexually achievements. i has only come of day that females are taking this attitude too. For this change in societies image of a female attitude, we are now looked at as sluts. I find this funny as males have been doing this for decades. Look at the music industry and sports. there are males glorified for there sexually numbers (Simons, Jagger, Chamberlain), no females. They were never called sluts, Jagger was looked at in awe of his partners. But if a women was to do that, slut. Society doesnt even have a word for a male slut; slut is associated with females.
I think the change in female sexuality is due to the strive for female independence and equality in a quote unquote male world. So to become a part of it, the female must mimic what has been done it the past; thus exploring their sexual liberation.
Strictly my opinion, so i dont need someone rebutting this...
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#28
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Is it wrong that I like you more now that I know you've cheated on all your girlfriends?


People get so pissy about infidelity that I actually like it because it upsets people so much. Maybe that makes me childish but I don't really care. You people need to chill the fuck out and realise it isn't as great a crime as you make it out to be.


yeah you've explained exactly how I feel about it.
#29
......i sneak into my own house.....its four in the morning..........ive had too much to drink...... said i was out with the boys...........i sneek into my bedroom..........i slip into the bed......i know if i wake her ill wake up......Dead!!!

but seriously cheating is really ****ing bad, anyone who acts like its a good thing or a normal thing either a)really doesnt care about their boyfriend/girlfriend b)is just a straight up ****ty person. it seems the people you were talking to were the latter.
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#30
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Is it wrong that I like you more now that I know you've cheated on all your girlfriends?


People get so pissy about infidelity that I actually like it because it upsets people so much. Maybe that makes me childish but I don't really care. You people need to chill the fuck out and realise it isn't as great a crime as you make it out to be.


If it was easy, most people wouldn't fail to do it. It is not slutty to be attracted to more than one person at once.


I think it depends on the level of your relationship. If you've declared your love for eachother and do it then it's bad. If your just sex buddies who also happen to get along well then cheating is not so bad.
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Yeah they do, but that's like saying you got shot fifteen times and survived. Yeah you're still alive, but it hurt like hell.


So you wouldn't care if your gf went and fuked a guy right in front of you?
I'd much rather be cheated on than shot any day. You're an idiot if you think differently.

And what do you know about my lifestyle? It's happened. It's not a big deal.
#32
Quote by RevaM1ssP1ss
I obviously can't prove it but I haven't cheated and I will never cheat. It's disgusting and pointless.


How is it pointless? If someone enjoys it, it certainly has a point.

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TS, I know exactly what youre talking about and its very frusterating. Its difficult to trust girls in relationships for this very reason. But to solve this problem, you need to do three things;

You need to keep her sexually satisfied so she doesn't feel the need to go to other guys for sexual attention.


Yeah, good luck with that.

And lol @ how sexist your statement is. Yeah, women cheat on you because you suck in bed and they really need a good fucking to keep them loyal.

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You need to make sure that the girl knows that you won't put up with her ****ing around.


Yeah, I'm sure most girls assume their boyfriends won't give a fuck if they have sex with someone else, it's not like guys are famous for getting upset about that.

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And before the above two, you need to make sure that the girl has some decent morals and knows how to act in relationships.


You need to know that not everybody agrees with your morals or what is an appropriate way to act in a relationship.


Note to everyone: following this guy's advice will not stop girls "cheating" on you.
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#33
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it is not that a women looks for cheating, but it is no longer the stereotype that men cheat only. (ps i am a female). it is just become ok for females to talk about there sex life in the open. think of that, it has always been the men who rewarded by peers for sexually achievements. i has only come of day that females are taking this attitude too. For this change in societies image of a female attitude, we are now looked at as sluts. I find this funny as males have been doing this for decades. Look at the music industry and sports. there are males glorified for there sexually numbers (Simons, Jagger, Chamberlain), no females. They were never called sluts, Jagger was looked at in awe of his partners. But if a women was to do that, slut. Society doesnt even have a word for a male slut; slut is associated with females.
I think the change in female sexuality is due to the strive for female independence and equality in a quote unquote male world. So to become a part of it, the female must mimic what has been done it the past; thus exploring their sexual liberation.
Strictly my opinion, so i dont need someone rebutting this...


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#34
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If it was easy, most people wouldn't fail to do it. It is not slutty to be attracted to more than one person at once.

I wouldn't even say it's a question or whether or not you're attracted to other people or not, I personally think that you may as well spare someone's dignity and confidence by breaking up with them before you think about pursuing someone else.
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#35
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Get over it? I've cheated on all my girlfriends. If that makes me a cunt, so what?


well if they all thought they were in an exclusive relationship, then yeah, you are.
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#36
I find it hard not to cheat sometimes, so going by that I'm assuming my gf probably does too, unless some people do and others don't, suppose it depends on the person. Fair enough the fact there were 4 people of the same sex with the same oppinion doesn't do my theory any favours, but I stick by it
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#37
I'm pretty shocked.

It's not hard not to cheat. It just takes some confidence in yourself, self -respect and respect for your gf .
Just hope they don't represent the majority of girls.

I feel pretty strongly on this subject.
#38
Quote by RevaM1ssP1ss
I wouldn't even say it's a question or whether or not you're attracted to other people or not, I personally think that you may as well spare someone's dignity and confidence by breaking up with them before you think about pursuing someone else.


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#39
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...uh...

It was probably just those few friends of yours that were sluts. I'm sure most girls are not like that. I wouldn't generalize an entire sex from just four people and their opinions.

But that's just me.


THEY ARE NOT SLUTS.

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So you wouldn't care if your gf went and fuked a guy right in front of you?


Well I wouldn't really want to watch but I wouldn't care that much if my girlfriend had sex with other people.

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You can be attracted to more than one person without actually acting on that attraction behind your partner's back.


True, but would you agree that it isn't easy to resist the urge to act on attraction given the opportunity?

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yeah you've explained exactly how I feel about it.






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but seriously cheating is really ****ing bad, anyone who acts like its a good thing or a normal thing either a)really doesnt care about their boyfriend/girlfriend b)is just a straight up ****ty person. it seems the people you were talking to were the latter.


Or we just have a more enlightened attitude to sex and relationships.

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I think it depends on the level of your relationship. If you've declared your love for eachother and do it then it's bad. If your just sex buddies who also happen to get along well then cheating is not so bad.


I don't see why it is impossible to love more than one person or why it is wrong to have sex with someone even if you love another. Sex =/= love.

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I wouldn't even say it's a question or whether or not you're attracted to other people or not, I personally think that you may as well spare someone's dignity and confidence by breaking up with them before you think about pursuing someone else.


It's not even necessarily about pursuing someone else. One night stands aren't a pursuit of someone else and I don't think it's an affront to the other person in a relationship if their partner has one.
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#40
Quote by smb
It's not a big deal.


What the hell is your problem? Yes, its a big deal, you know why?

Because you'll never EVER get into a sucessful relationship with someone of the opposite sex when you have that attitude. You're an asshole, flat out, and you're the kind of guy that girls get together with for a few months because they're flattered by you're so-called "maniless" (when in fact its arrogant, immature and childish) and break up within a few months when they realize that you're nothing but a cheating, ignorant asshole who ****s with their emotions.

I sincerelly hope that your balls get burned off slowly with a soldering iron.
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