Ok well when i bought my new iceman the guy said that the neck PU needed a bit of re-soldering done.

So I got the guitar and you cant hear the guitar at all when its on clean on the neck pickup (tone zone).

So my dad looked in and theres a loose wire that looked like it should be soldered onto one of the little plates, so my dad did that and told me to check it out.

After that I couldnt hear the bridge PU at all.

So what exactly am I doing wrong? are there any like picture diagrams that show you how to do it properly?

Try the DiMarzio website, I think they have wiring diagrams for their pickups but if not just email them; they should be able to send you what you need.
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