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#1
I was at a party on saturday night and was relatively drunk and so had a bit of a dance on the d-floor, something I wouldn't normally do. I met this girl while dancing and danced with her for a while and started hooking up with her for probably about 15mins-1hour, my memory of the night is quite poor. We'll call her Sarah. I think she had to go with her friend or something that was leaving so she said bye and that was the last I saw of her. Now thanks to the town I'm from being a relatively small place and me remembering her name when she told me, I found out who she is. It turns out Sarah is friends with one of my friends, we'll call her Jane, and I could easily get Sarah's number etc if I wanted, but should I wait before doing this or what? I'm pretty **** when it comes to stuff like this. I wasn't thinking before and I texted the Jane and said that I was at a party the other night and hooked into her friend Sarah but can't really remember anything else of the night. This was probably a pretty stupid thing to do because Jane will tell Sarah that I texted her saying that at school.

What should I do from here?

options so far:

-do nothing at all
-do nothing for a week then text her
-leave her a comment on myspace


And I can't think of anything else. Help would be appreciated.
You are like a hurricane
There's calm in your eye.
And I'm gettin' blown away
To somewhere safer
where the feeling stays.
I want to love you but
I'm getting blown away.
#2
****ing ask for the number and phone her!
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#3
Tell her the truth, that you want to perform fellatio on her.
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#4
just text her lol its not like shell come back and chainsaw you or somthing
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#5
Just get Sarah's number and text her?

I don't understand why you are scared to do that.
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#10
Wait a few days (not a week) and text. After a bit of texting call her.
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#12
Wait a few to days to do anything regardless. If you do it too soon, you'll come off looking desperate.

I'm not crazy about the MySpace route. I think it's kind of weird to do that.

Just explain to "Jane" that you had a good time with "Sarah" and that you want to get to know her.
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#14
^ Ah yeah, definitely don't do myspace. If it goes anywhere, no girl likes to admit they got to know their guy through there, and it makes the whole thing kinda sketchy
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#15
relationship thread ....

then sex thread....

have fun
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#16
You hooked into her? :|
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#17
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^ Ah yeah, definitely don't do myspace. If it goes anywhere, no girl likes to admit they got to know their guy through there, and it makes the whole thing kinda sketchy


Best way to describe it. Yeah, don't do MySpace.
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#18
hai guise i met mah tr00 luv on maispais
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#19
get her number from jane and call her.

also, it was a dance and a makeout...dont read too deep into it.
#20
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hai guise i met mah tr00 luv on maispais


I was li3k hai wanna B mah GFF and shez li3k ya so ya we hhok up on maispaec all t3h tiem (luv j00 gurl <333333333333333333) i even changed mah profile name!111
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#21
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Just get Sarah's number and text her?

I don't understand why you are scared to do that.


I'm not. I just don't wanna seem desperate.

Okay, well it was on saturday night and it's monday night now, what day should I text her on?

Also, what should I say?
You are like a hurricane
There's calm in your eye.
And I'm gettin' blown away
To somewhere safer
where the feeling stays.
I want to love you but
I'm getting blown away.
#23
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I was li3k hai wanna B mah GFF and shez li3k ya so ya we hhok up on maispaec all t3h tiem (luv j00 gurl <333333333333333333) i even changed mah profile name!111

i will KILL YOU.

seriously, **** likes that pisses me off. i feel like pointing out...THEY LOVE A COMPUTER SCREeN.

TS, just talk to her dude.
#24
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I was li3k hai wanna B mah GFF and shez li3k ya so ya we hhok up on maispaec all t3h tiem (luv j00 gurl <333333333333333333) i even changed mah profile name!111


I once knew a guy whose AIM screen name was "I Loooove *name withheld*"
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#25
I read your post really fast so I'm not sure I understand exactly what I'm telling you to do, but I understand that you made out with a girl and don't know what to do next.

My advice: don't be clingy, so don't start following her around, but be forward enough to show her what you want to do

1. Get drunk and make out with girl
2. Get confused over what to do next
3. Follow my advice
4. Get laid
5. Live happily ever after
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#27
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I'm not. I just don't wanna seem desperate.

Okay, well it was on saturday night and it's monday night now, what day should I text her on?

Also, what should I say?

Tuesday night or sometime Wednesday sounds fine. 'Hey this is ___; I had a great time with you the other night and I thought I'd get to know you better What's up?' or something simple like that.
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#28
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I once knew a guy whose AIM screen name was "I Loooove *name withheld*"


It was you, wasn't it..
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#29
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Tuesday night or sometime Wednesday sounds fine. 'Hey this is ___; I had a great time with you the other night and I thought I'd get to know you better What's up?' or something simple like that.


Ooh okay thanks. I'll take your advice because being female you have inside knowledge
You are like a hurricane
There's calm in your eye.
And I'm gettin' blown away
To somewhere safer
where the feeling stays.
I want to love you but
I'm getting blown away.
#30
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It was you, wasn't it..


I have never loved.



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Tuesday night or sometime Wednesday sounds fine. 'Hey this is ___; I had a great time with you the other night and I thought I'd get to know you better What's up?' or something simple like that.


Your ulterior motives are despicable.

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#32
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Now, now, surely there's someone out there for a big handsome wizard like you.
Just show them your magic tricks.
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#33
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Ooh okay thanks. I'll take your advice because being female you have inside knowledge

Good boy You know best. And by that I mean you know I know best.
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#34
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Good boy You know best. And by that I mean you know I know best.


Hell, she can get guys with that killer beard of hers even!
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#37
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Good boy You know best. And by that I mean you know I know best.


You may know best, but I had step by step instructions (WITH smiley illustrations) on how to live happily ever after using my advice
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#39
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You may know best, but I had step by step instructions (WITH smiley illustrations) on how to live happily ever after using my advice

Cute.


I don't like cute.
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#40
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Good boy You know best. And by that I mean you know I know best.


Yip
You are like a hurricane
There's calm in your eye.
And I'm gettin' blown away
To somewhere safer
where the feeling stays.
I want to love you but
I'm getting blown away.
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