#1
ok so
i dont think this should go in the relationship thread cos its not really about a relationship
but if it should
i apologise profusely :P

here we go...

if you cba to read a wall of text, leave now

im currently in a healthy relationship with my girlfriend, who i love very much
im well happy and dont want anything to change
however...
my gf's best friend, and one of my best friends has recently admitted to liking me
which is awkward at best
and, even worse;
this lass thats been my best friend for maybe like a year now, has also admitted to me that she really likes me
this lass has just split up with her boyfriend, and found out her bf doesnt like her anymore
so thats pretty crappy as it is
but also, ANOTHER of my closest mates has just split up with her long-term boyfriend and is very upset about it all
All in all, its a pretty crappy time for them all
As it is though, i feel really bad for them, and i dont like to act too "lovey" with my gf around them, cos i know it makes them jealous/sad
and cos ive not been "lovey" recently, my gf got very upset the other night
so i really dunno wt to do
I dont wanna upset my gf cos i love her to bits
but i dont wanna upset my mates either :/

tbh, i think im just gonna stop thinking about my mates as much and concentrate on keeping my gf happy


but
any suggestions for keeping everyone happy?
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EDIT2: also, my ex gf admitted to being still in love with me despite being engaged
but, shes a physcho slag who i wish would just go away
so i hope it ruins her life
Last edited by oscar666 at Sep 2, 2008,
#3
Tell your GF why you're not being so "lovey" around your mates?

EDIT: and yeah this should go in relationship thread
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Ehm
Be honest with your gf, explain it to her.
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The word "relationship" in the first sentence should've been a clue

Post this entire thing there, you'll get much better responses.

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you can have the lot of em 'part from my gf for all i care

tbh
if you saw sum of them you wouldnt be that jealous
they're nt bad but they're not really hot :/

I have explained it to her
she just gets frustrated every now and then
but i do make it up to her

and
thanks for some of the advice
and yes, i moight post this in the relationship forum
so thanks
Last edited by oscar666 at Sep 2, 2008,
#20
Be normal with your girlfriend caus' if you're not careful you'll end up with no girlfriend and some upset friends
#23
I lol'd at edit 2, you're an inspiration to the pit sir!

But yea, priority #1 is always the gf. I understand you don't want to upset your friends, but let them know you're not gonna break it off with your girlfriend or act any differently to them because of the circumstances. It's gonna suck for the one that likes you, but make it clear that if she wants to get over you she's gonna need to distance herself a bit. I've been down that road and it never ends well.
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I lol'd at edit 2, you're an inspiration to the pit sir!

But yea, priority #1 is always the gf. I understand you don't want to upset your friends, but let them know you're not gonna break it off with your girlfriend or act any differently to them because of the circumstances. It's gonna suck for the one that likes you, but make it clear that if she wants to get over you she's gonna need to distance herself a bit. I've been down that road and it never ends well.


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#25
wait,he has four girls after him and he doesn't know what to do...? especially if ones a pyscho slag or whatever he said,thats even better.

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#26
ok ok cool
im gonna just f*ck my friends (no not in that way. Stop touching yourself!) and concentrate on my gf
i know one of the other girls just wants to mess up the relationship...

and tbh
i am over myself
i do not enjoy having these girls liking me
they're my friends and i deffo dnt think of em like that
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