i was thnking of getting the esp kh-2 ntb and i was wonderin if i get it should i keep the 81 in both positions or should i change the neck pickup to an 85 or 60?

keep it for now. see if you like the tone of it in the neck. If the tone is really bothering you swap it out. simple as that
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