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#1
My father and mother don't get along very well and they got in some argument earlier today. I didn't think much of it since it's a pretty common occurance but my mother ended up leaving with the car a few hours ago and now it's getting late and she hasnt come back home. She didn't take her cell phone and hasn't called and she didnt take any clothes with her so I'm starting to get scared. I'm putting my little brother to bed at the moment since my dad is cleaning (he's venting his anger by trying to prove her wrong and wallow in his deprivation.. I think they were fighting about him being on the computer a lot and so he's pitying himself by enduring his 'endless cleaning' that he's expected to do. He's not really expected to do it but whatever, I'm letting him do what he needs to to feel better) and so isn't paying very much attention to getting my brother off where he needs to be.

I don't really know what I'm asking for here. I guess just similar stories or maybe something entertaining so I don't chew my fingers off. I'd go play guitar but I'll be too loud with my brother asleep and I also have to finish a paper on the computer.
Meh.
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#4
I had the same situation years ago. She eventually came back home later that day though so I don't think you should worry about it to much.
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#5
Sorry to hear that, dear. I'm sure she'll come back and they'll have a big kiss.

Here's something to help pass the time: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nE_vfiZZkAQ
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#6
Sorry to hear that hope your folks sort things out. Anywhos my parents fight damn near everyday and usually I'm pulled into it
#7
She's probably at a hotel. Wait a day or so. I know that the exact thing happened with my dad when my mom was bitching about him and shit... so he stayed the night at a hotel. My mom did that too. They were argueing, and she got all tear-eyed, and took us to stay the night in a hotel. I liked it though.... they had nice waffles in the morning.

My parents are divorced now, even though they still keep in touch (mostly fighting...) so most of it's resolved...kinda.
#9
This has happened numerous times to me, just be glad she hasn't been drinking. We would have to call the cops to tell them to look for her car, and we had know choice but to tel them it was because she had been drinking.
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#10
i give you a hug...in not a gay way...*walks away slowly*
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#11
she is having food poisoning at arby's
she'll come home eventuly, but call the cops after a couple days
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#12
She's fine. She just came to my house, as usual.
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#14
This is probably the most intelligent thread of it's type. I think you've reacted in the best way you could, being really sensible about it.

Personally, my mum and dad get on okay, but there have been times that got me really worried. I remember a bad holiday where my mum and dad were arguing everyday about where we should go and what we should do - my dad ended up walking off on his own somewhere and I was left with my little bro and my mum crying.

I guess that's what can happen sometimes when you're parents are in each others face a lot. But it's better that they're not penting up their problems. I shouldn't worry too much if this isn't really a common thing for them.
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#15
Used to happen to me all the time. My mother would go get drunk and drive around, then when I was 9 they got a divorce. Then she died when I was 12.
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Used to happen to me all the time. My mother would go get drunk and drive around, then when I was 9 they got a divorce. Then she died when I was 12.


I'm so sorry.
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#17
Does she have any friends or relatives who she might have gone to stay with? You could always try calling them. Or like other people have said, she could be at a hotel.

I'm sure she'll be fine, though. Don't worry. The gods of rock will protect her.


Oh, and something entertaining? You could always watch me make a fool of myself on youtube.
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#18
This happened to me when I was young, they decided to get a divorce, they are mostly friendly now as my mom is remarried and my dad has a girlfriend.
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#19
I'm glad I'm finally at university so I don't have to deal with their fighting bullshit that will have me in therapy for ****ing years anymore (thanks a lot ). It's OK. It was just a harsher fight. My mom did the same thing... twice.

#20
She came back!
She won't talk to anyone but.. she came back. I'm not sure whether to leave her alone or to go talk to her but I think I'm going to go give her a hug and see how it goes. Thanks guys =]
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#22
this same story happened to me 4 years ago except the roles of the parents were reversed. needless to say, i still havent seen or heard from my dad since that morning before school.
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#23
My parents did this a lot when I was a kid, they'd argue, fight, and leave for days.

Nothing to worry about, just something to get used to.
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She came back!
She won't talk to anyone but.. she came back. I'm not sure whether to leave her alone or to go talk to her but I think I'm going to go give her a hug and see how it goes. Thanks guys =]


I'm hoping for the best. <3
#25
i dont know how ill feel about my girlfriend in 20 years if we are still together. i only get sex once a week now and im not even bothered much theres no point in asking..has to be the right time at the weekend, has to be a full moon, the nasdaq has to be up, the housework has to be done, it has to be an odd day of the week not even, my football team have to be losing.

I dont see whats so bad about prostitution men get so little excitement when they get older.
#26
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i dont know how ill feel about my girlfriend in 20 years if we are still together. i only get sex once a week now and im not even bothered much theres no point in asking..has to be the right time at the weekend, has to be a full moon, the nasdaq has to be up, the housework has to be done, it has to be an odd day of the week not even, my football team have to be losing.

I dont see whats so bad about prostitution men get so little excitement when they get older.


here's an idea
maybe there's deeper reasons for marrying someone than to get laid every night?

nah I'm just talking crazy now
#27
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i dont know how ill feel about my girlfriend in 20 years if we are still together. i only get sex once a week now and im not even bothered much theres no point in asking..has to be the right time at the weekend, has to be a full moon, the nasdaq has to be up, the housework has to be done, it has to be an odd day of the week not even, my football team have to be losing.

I dont see whats so bad about prostitution men get so little excitement when they get older.

your priorities are mixed up. sounds like you just need a **** buddy.
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#28
He is on the computer because he has discovered that he is a gay homosexual and has been cruising manmeat.com.

Your mom found out and will divorce him soon.

He is cleaning because he would like to wear a french maid's outfit for his new husband (who will be your stepfather), Rob Halford.

#29
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#31
She talked a little and basically they both are just really bitter with each other. It's nothing new at all but it really scares me with my little brother still at home.. I'm going off to college next fall and he's not going to have anyone to go to if this kind of stuff happens. He's only 10 and he's my baby. He's really sensitive about these kinds of things and I don't know what he'll do without a cool head around to calm him down and comfort him. I'm scared as hell but I wouldn't show him that... just... gah. I dunno. My two older brothers moved out a long time ago and I've been the oldest in the house since I was about 11 and the little one was 4.


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#32
^ You better watch your brother when Rob Halford (or as you call him, daddy or leather daddy) moves in.
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She talked a little and basically they both are just really bitter with each other. It's nothing new at all but it really scares me with my little brother still at home.. I'm going off to college next fall and he's not going to have anyone to go to if this kind of stuff happens. He's only 10 and he's my baby. He's really sensitive about these kinds of things and I don't know what he'll do without a cool head around to calm him down and comfort him. I'm scared as hell but I wouldn't show him that... just... gah. I dunno. My two older brothers moved out a long time ago and I've been the oldest in the house since I was about 11 and the little one was 4.


edit: Stephen, I love you, thank you. <3

If such is the case, then you just have to A) hope for the best, or B) Sit them both down and remind them that its not just between them, but the entire household, and that they have a young son that needs to be taken care of. If worst comes to worst, then when you get out and get on your feet, your little bro moves in with you. Thats eventually whats going to happen to my little sister, seeing as how my mom can't take care of her without flipping out or getting wrapped in her latest BF.
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#35
Oh thank god she came back. I actually got emotional reading this. This happened with my dad a few weeks ago....he never came home.
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here's an idea
maybe there's deeper reasons for marrying someone than to get laid every night?

nah I'm just talking crazy now



okay man heres how it goes

13-17-girlfriend give you blowjobs because sex is risky

18-22 promiscuous rigorous frequent intercourse with random females

22-26 sex and bjs 3 odd times a week from one chick

26-29 sex 1-2 times a week..woman has learned bjs are a barganing tool

30-45 sex infrequently bjs...dont want to think about that

45-60 impotence and lack of sexual drive makes sex irrelevant to man


well thats how its gone for me up to 26 lol so sex and marriage are 2 passing ships in the night.
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She talked a little and basically they both are just really bitter with each other. It's nothing new at all but it really scares me with my little brother still at home.. I'm going off to college next fall and he's not going to have anyone to go to if this kind of stuff happens. He's only 10 and he's my baby. He's really sensitive about these kinds of things and I don't know what he'll do without a cool head around to calm him down and comfort him. I'm scared as hell but I wouldn't show him that... just... gah. I dunno. My two older brothers moved out a long time ago and I've been the oldest in the house since I was about 11 and the little one was 4.


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She talked a little and basically they both are just really bitter with each other. It's nothing new at all but it really scares me with my little brother still at home.. I'm going off to college next fall and he's not going to have anyone to go to if this kind of stuff happens. He's only 10 and he's my baby. He's really sensitive about these kinds of things and I don't know what he'll do without a cool head around to calm him down and comfort him. I'm scared as hell but I wouldn't show him that... just... gah. I dunno. My two older brothers moved out a long time ago and I've been the oldest in the house since I was about 11 and the little one was 4.


edit: Stephen, I love you, thank you. <3



The parents are stubborn and once again have forgotten all about you. Best you can do is comfort him now and tell him that everything'll be OK and that parents sometimes fight. I know you want to be there, but... there really isn't all that much you can do. You've found some way to cope with it, I'm sure he'll find his own way too.
#40
tell your brother that there is going to be a big leather daddy in the house and that he will need to call your father mom.
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