Poll: Is it it ok for your gf to read ur inbox, but not vice versa?
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View poll results: Is it it ok for your gf to read ur inbox, but not vice versa?
Yes
9 15%
No
50 85%
Voters: 59.
#1
ok, who thinks that its fair if your girlfriend checks the inbox on your cellphone, but you can't even think of looking at hers. I just dont understand it lol

Input would be nice
#3
its because you are a weak man.
sorry,its true.if my gf doesn't want me to read her inbox,i say "too bad,bitch!!"and take it.
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#5
i love to see equality in a relationship.
What has she got to hide?
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#6
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#9
Me and my boyf have nowt to hide. I usually read texts over his shoulder but he doesn't do that to me cos he doesn't think its right to do so. Girlfriend or not.
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#10
if you're that bothered, delete texts after you've read them.

am I the only one who doesn't leave their phone lying about for anyone to grab?

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Me and my boyf have nowt to hide. I usually read texts over his shoulder but he doesn't do that to me cos he doesn't think its right to do so. Girlfriend or not.

why do you feel the need to read his texts?
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#16
do it while shs in the shower
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#17
Just because she's your girlfriend automatically means she has a right to look through your inbox? I honestly don't know where people come up with this kind of stuff.
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#18
cuz youre being a pussy


a relationship is made up of two, both have equal say, both have trust in each other.
She cant do anything you dont wnate her to and vice-versa

if she can look at your texts, but you cant look at hers, there are 2 scenarios
1. She's not mature enought to understand the tust that should go into a relationship
2. She's cheating on you
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#19
I dont think its fair.
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#22
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lulz.

sadly, this is what must be done.

take it from me...a married man.
#23
Here's a handy tip: if either people in the relationship want to go through the other's personal stuff, including texts, then you're not doing it right

And if that's not enough, it was my father's stalking of my mother, going through her phone, checking who she was with, ringing her friends, watching her through pub windows etc. that contributed to her throwing him out and ending the marriage.
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#24
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if she can look at your texts, but you cant look at hers, there are 2 scenarios
1. She's not mature enought to understand the tust that should go into a relationship
2. She's cheating on you

I love that situation, she's cheating on you, but she's so insecure that you're cheating on her that she needs to read your texts to make sure you aren't... thats just irony right there.
#25
Quote by Lemoninfluence
if you're that bothered, delete texts after you've read them.

am I the only one who doesn't leave their phone lying about for anyone to grab?


why do you feel the need to read his texts?

Cos I'm a nosy cow. I do it to everyone and since my friends don't have anything to hide, they usually turn their phone so i can see it better.
At the same time, I don't care if people read my texts. Friends usually go down my phone anyway.

In other words, my boyf, friends and I have a casual attitude towards our mobiles. We will not die if we don't have them about our person nor do we care if someone looks through it.
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#26
Well, my woman stalks all my posts on here, but I felt really weird when she said it was okay for me to log onto her Myspace.



The only reason her reading my posts bothers me is that she doesn't give me a chance to explain anything.
#29
Although you shouldn't have anything to hide that would be bad, it doesn't mean you don't have personal stuff she doesn't need to know about.
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#30
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I love that situation, she's cheating on you, but she's so insecure that you're cheating on her that she needs to read your texts to make sure you aren't... thats just irony right there.

in the 2nd scenario, shes chating and is thinking "this is easy. How do I know he's not doing the same."
so she doesn't want to get caught but wants to make sure he isn't doing the same

her unfaithfulness has created a warped view of reality in her mind and she has become paranoid
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#31
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in the 2nd scenario, shes chating and is thinking "this is easy. How do I know he's not doing the same."
so she doesn't want to get caught but wants to make sure he isn't doing the same

her unfaithfulness has created a warped view of reality in her mind and she has become paranoid

That's why it's so funny, she's doing something that's absolutely horrible to him, and then is worried sick that he's doing it to her... I like it and I think it's absolutely hillarious.
#32
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That's why it's so funny, she's doing something that's absolutely horrible to him, and then is worried sick that he's doing it to her... I like it and I think it's absolutely hillarious.

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#33
Quote by OddOneOut
Cos I'm a nosy cow. I do it to everyone and since my friends don't have anything to hide, they usually turn their phone so i can see it better.
At the same time, I don't care if people read my texts. Friends usually go down my phone anyway.

In other words, my boyf, friends and I have a casual attitude towards our mobiles. We will not die if we don't have them about our person nor do we care if someone looks through it.

Quote by ShaunDiel
Curiosity/Noseyness. I'm the same way.

to be honest that just comes across as insecurity on your part. you might try to justify it by saying you're just curious and your friends don't mind, but is it out of the question that your friends are accommodating your insecurities?

if someone's insecure about a certain aspect of their appearance, friends will usually not make a big deal of it because to do so would be to upset their friend.

But then again, I don't know either of you so I'm probably way off the mark. I'm just saying that that's what I get when I read those posts.
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#34
Quote by Lemoninfluence
to be honest that just comes across as insecurity on your part. you might try to justify it by saying you're just curious and your friends don't mind, but is it out of the question that your friends are accommodating your insecurities?

if someone's insecure about a certain aspect of their appearance, friends will usually not make a big deal of it because to do so would be to upset their friend.

But then again, I don't know either of you so I'm probably way off the mark. I'm just saying that that's what I get when I read those posts.

Maybe, but you're no psychologist right?

It's just really common for me and my friends to read each others texts and stuff. We just don't see the need to have to hide things from each other (we tend to avoid texts from boy/girlfriends, however). Which is kinda the way it should be with friends, IMO.
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