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There is a girl at my school that I like a lot. She's really nice, but I'm always to shy to talk to her in the halls between classes. I think she suspects that I'm interested in her, but I want to let her know anyway.

My question is this. What's a good way to let a girl know that you like her without coming right out and saying it? For example, what are some simple things that I can do to help her out? Or maybe something I can give her, like a gift? Also, we only have one class together, so I only have a few brief opportunities to see her each day.

I realize this belongs in the relationship thread, and I tried but I couldn't find it. So sorry. Any non-serious posts will be ignored!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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#2
Kill her family. Good luck trying to ignore the first response, bitch.

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make a sharp observation about her... like what perfume she's wearing or that her hair looks good, girls LOVE to be complimented, but don't make it obvious.
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make a sharp observation about her... like what perfume she's wearing or that her hair looks good, girls LOVE to be complimented, but don't make it obvious.


yea and look like a total stalker
#6
Just start out by finding something to strike up a conversation with her. You said that you had one class with her, find something to say to her relating to that class.
#7
ask her about her love life

and be sure to comliment her, but not too obvious


and remember

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ALWAYS find this person online, whether it be Myspace or Facebook or whatever. Breaking the ice is a lot easier while IMing than anywhere else. Talk to her online then meet her and talk to her more in person.
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#13
Mix cd of songs you like?
Or songs that are similar to the ones she likes, but by different bands and stuff...
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ask her about her love life

and be sure to comliment her, but not too obvious


and remember

the real world is not like the pit. watch what you say...
Advice taken!!
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Talk to her online then meet her and talk to her more in person.

No. No no no no no no no.


No.


NO!

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ha this is easy

just smile at her whenever you pass her

a smile says more than words can
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ALWAYS find this person online, whether it be Myspace or Facebook or whatever. Breaking the ice is a lot easier while IMing than anywhere else. Talk to her online then meet her and talk to her more in person.


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No. No no no no no no no.


No.


NO!


Hey, it worked for me.

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ALWAYS find this person online, whether it be Myspace or Facebook or whatever. Breaking the ice is a lot easier while IMing than anywhere else. Talk to her online then meet her and talk to her more in person.

I usually go about it the other way around. =/
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#23
take her to a dying fetus concert.
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#24
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ha this is easy

just smile at her whenever you pass her

a smile says more than words can
I try to. But she always seems to aviod eye contact.
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Mix cd of songs you like?
Or songs that are similar to the ones she likes, but by different bands and stuff...

wtf is this the 80's?


"oh i got you this mix cd with a bunch of shit I liek, but im not sure if you like this music, so insetad of asking anhd striking up conversation like normal people do, I'll just assume you're exactly like me"


very considerate
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No. No no no no no no no.


No.


NO!

its a good idea
dont shoot it down just yet
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ALWAYS find this person online, whether it be Myspace or Facebook or whatever. Breaking the ice is a lot easir while IMing than anywhere else. Talk to her online then meet her and talk to her more in person.


whoa what?? I usually find that meeting people online first and then meeting them in person is way more awkward.

TS do not be the creep that says one word to a person and then adds them on fb cause thats just weird. I guess my advice would be to talk to her about whatever subject you guys are taking together, and then after you get comfortable talking to her you should be set
#28
okay let's be serious about this, all this eejits with their 'dick-in-box' shite

right well firstly under no circumstance tell her how you actually feel
it's only gonna put pressure on her and make her feel bad like, so don't say it

just be nice try and talk to her and if she likes you back it will happen at some point

just don't be stupid and tell her, it's an amateur mistake to make
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its a good idea
dont shoot it down just yet



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#30
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Hey, it worked for me.

Clap clap.

But seriously, terrible advice. Sorry.

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its a good idea
dont shoot it down just yet

No, it's a horrible idea.

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#31
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I try to. But she always seems to aviod eye contact.

you have no chance

but seriously, do you have any classes of lunch periods with her? if so, just sit kinda close to her and her ground of friends and try to talk to her somehow (make funny jokes, be humorous but not pit humorous)

just dont say anything that could make her feel awkward, think about what your gonna say and the response before you say it
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#32
Jus get to know her a lil. Find out wat she likes, i. e. hobbies or interests. (And don't her friends this kinda thing; ask her directly.) Stuff like that. And be polite, btw. If you walkin with her, havin a conversation and you 2 happen to come to a door, hold the door for her. Say plz and ty when it's appropiate.

Above all, do NOT keep doin wat you're doin. She ain't gonna w8 round for ya forever, man. Talkin to a girl is generally bout jus neutral things generally does the trick for me, man.

Finally, do NOT do the whole 'I wrote you a song' routine. Puts unnecessary pressure on her. Not somethin girls wanna deal with. As a general rule, girls like to feel comfortable, same as guys do.
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#33
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okay let's be serious about this, all this eejits with their 'dick-in-box' shite

right well firstly under no circumstance tell her how you actually feel
it's only gonna put pressure on her and make her feel bad like, so don't say it

just be nice try and talk to her and if she likes you back it will happen at some point

just don't be stupid and tell her, it's an amateur mistake to make
That's exactly what I was thinking.
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#34
ask her about the homework or something then ask her if shes going to a high school football game or something... i have no idea why im giving advice when i have my own girl problems
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okay let's be serious about this, all this eejits with their 'dick-in-box' shite

right well firstly under no circumstance tell her how you actually feel
it's only gonna put pressure on her and make her feel bad like, so don't say it

just be nice try and talk to her and if she likes you back it will happen at some point

just don't be stupid and tell her, it's an amateur mistake to make

+1
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ask her about the homework or something then ask her if shes going to a high school football game or something... i have no idea why im giving advice when i have my own girl problems
I understand.
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#37
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ask her about the homework or something then ask her if shes going to a high school football game or something... i have no idea why im giving advice when i have my own girl problems

we all do. we either dont have girlfriends or lose them after like 1 day
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#39
Okay, here's what you really need to do. Just go up to her and start talking about whatever that you think you guys share in common (classes, friends, etc). Don't make a big deal either. If she's willing to talk, you have a chance. If not, just move on to the next one.

But whatever you, DO NOT do the work online.

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wtf is this the 80's?


"oh i got you this mix cd with a bunch of shit I liek, but im not sure if you like this music, so insetad of asking anhd striking up conversation like normal people do, I'll just assume you're exactly like me"


very considerate


I was assuming he already talked to the girl, having not read his original post completely.

But yeah, actually it is. It takes a lot of time and energy, and if you use good songs, and introduce her to a new world of music, you tend to make a bigger impact on her than just saying "hi you're pretty, lets go ****."

It has nothing to do with assuming the girl is "just like you"... Music is a wonderful form of expression that can say things and convey ideas that words sometimes can't do justice to.
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