I've been in a relationship with a girl i REALLY like for just over 6 months now. We see each other everyday and i feel like i've known her for ages. We were friends before we started dating. I haven't seen her over the past week because it's half term (We board at a college so live far away ish) and earlier she started sending me odd texts.
She started off by saying "we need a talk" so i asked what it was about. She said its about us and its not good news. We were texting for the next 45 mins or so, and she basically said she was going to break up with me, but she really doesn't want to. She said everything is getting to her and its not fair on me for her to stay with me.
She's been having a lot of trouble recently: missing home, work + exams getting to her, family problems etc. I know for a fact that she likes me and thinks we're perfect together, her best friend told me 5 mins ago, and "my girl" told her 10 mins before that. She also said that she's finding this so hard, she's been crying for days, etc. Bear in mind her best friend can't pull off a lie at all and is a really nice person, who i've become good friends with as well.
Now, i can't believe that she would break up with me if she thought we were perfect and such. So i sort of assume she's trying to let me down easily. As it says in the FAQs "actions speak louder than words". If she didn't want to break up she wouldn't, right? But i find this so hard to believe, i really don't think she'd lie to me to make me feel better. I text her earlier saying i'm a strong person and i can handle it if she doesn't feel the way she used to anymore. She then said she isn't trying to make me feel better. She said i deserve the truth, because she cares about me...
I'm rather confused to be honest. I need advice on what to say/how to act tomorrow. Should i accept it and move on? Should i hug her, kiss her, touch her hand/arm? I don't wanna make it harder for her, but i really can't let this go easily. Argggh i'm so confused.
Sorry about the long message, sorry if it didn't make much sense. My brain is sort of in shock at the moment and i'm not ashamed to admit i've been crying. Maybe i should head over to the hug thread as well.