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Yeah we can like posts, be mayor of threads and post fancy background pics.
All the developers got drunk one day and changed the site around. Also if you look carefully you'll notice an awesome header up the top of the pit (if you're not on a mobile).
oh yeah also im both purple because im a tab mod and mayor of the pony thread
more like mare amiright lmao
I'm also drunk for you lmao
Yeah I know that feeling. I got married and found out less than a week later that my fiancé was sleeping with some other guy for 9 months before the wedding. All sorts of shit came out that completely destroyed me. I ended up leaving her after which they got together. It was nearly ten years ago now and I still sometimes get those same thoughts. I see pictures of him and he's not the best looking guy and it drives me nuts. Like wtf?? I'm better looking than that guy why would you cheat on me with him? It's not particularly humble to say but I'm smarter than he is, have a better job, father to her kids, kind, generous etc...yet she cheats on me with a guy that's balding, overweight, works as a shift manager in a supermarket and admits to regularly cheating on his girlfriends. I would compare myself to this guy and my self esteem would plummet. They are still together and I see him around or pictures of him and it still gets me.
Even when I'm not comparing myself to him I still feel like if I had done something better it would have kept her happy and it would have stopped her from cheating. We were both working hard to save some money and looking after our kids and things fell into a routine. I think to myself that if I had paid more attention to our relationship, worked harder on it, then she wouldn't have cheated.
The truth is there are genuine lessons I can learn from that experience and improve on the next time around. But she still didn't have to cheat. She could have said she was unhappy, talked to me, done something about it herself, or left me before cheating on me. But she didn't and that's NOT on me.
wasIS a coward and can't face up to difficult decisions or conversations. And yet she has a need to be in control all the time (probably a symptom of her cowardice). In order to control things she lies and manipulates people. In order for her to get people to behave the way she wants she feed them information to lead them to decisions she wants them to make regardless of whether the information is true or a complete fabrication. And so she lies and manipulates people. This is what makes her a cheater.
It's thinking through this kind of stuff and realizing the truth behind her cheating that makes me feel better. When I really take the time to analyse and think through her actions I realize that even if I had faults it doesn't justify the way she treated me. Her poor behaviour, her cheating and her lying is a flaw in HER character and actually has nothing to do with me or who I am.
I think about what I could have done better to have a stronger relationship but then try to look at the bright side. Even if I had done better...I still would have been in a relationship with a coward that has no issue with lying and manipulating someone that they say they love. I am actually lucky to have found out the truth about her and that kind of thinking starts to make me feel more optimistic about myself and about who I am.
Cheating indicates more than a single character flaw. It shows narcissism, manipulation, dishonesty and cowardice.
When I get down I think through everything carefully and realize some facts:
1)It doesn't matter what flaws I have personally she was not justified in cheating on me because if there was something really wrong there were honourable ways for her to handle that - but she chose to cheat. Therefore her cheating is not actually related to any of my flaws.
2) Her cheating is a result of her flaws. These flaws are part of her character and I did not see them before. Once they were brought to light they were very apparent. I am lucky to be rid of someone that is such a narcissistic, manipulative, dishonest coward.
3)I learned lessons from the experience. I acknowledge my flaws but realize that they have nothing to do with her cheating - that was all her. However, I can work on my flaws and be a better person. Chances are that she is too cowardly to recognize her own flaws and will always be a person of low character and class.
I still get those thoughts from time to time...particularly when I see him. I don't actually think I'm a super attractive guy but I'm maybe a 6 and this guy is at most a 4. And it confuses me and makes me feel bad. So I talk to people I know and trust and ask them straight up...is this guy seriously better looking than me? They all say something along the same lines..."She's crazy, it makes no sense at all. Stop trying to look at her thought process like it was in any way rational. By comparing yourself to him or looking for faults in yourself. You are awesome and trying to make what she did a rational decision is only going to confuse you and twist you up...IT WASN'T RATINOAL BECAUSE SHE'S A CRAZY BITCH - END OF STORY!!!"
I hope that helps man.
I still get down sometimes but thinking about all these realizations I've made helps me. And knowing that I can recognize and work on my own faults makes me feel optimistic. Even if I don't take action it's good enough to know that I can and have the potential while she will most likely always be a coward of low character.
I treated her good. I am a good person and I deserve better than her.
You're a hot dude so don't worry.
being single is lame hud
When it's cold out but you're nice and wrapped up hmu
Yeah you're right, I usually just assume that people did their nails recently if they look perfect because mine chip after an hour of doing anything useful with my hands
Thanks! I am extremely excited because the classes I'm taking are really interesting and also I wrote all my assignments down in my planner already like a good nerd so I am just raring to cross them out when completed
I am both already haha. I think I would prefer vain because even if I'm late to the first class I will look great for the entire day unless it rains or is windy or something
Just rub some mustard on yerself innirrrr
tomorrow is the first day of (my) semester and I'm so scared that I'm going to wake up late that I can't go to sleep
I did paint my nails a very bright color (a cross between neon pink/orange) earlier so maybe if I'm late people will think I was busy doing my nails instead of oversleeping. I don't know which is worse.
Ostrich trumps all
I'm using UG turquoise with purple writing
guys big shit just happened
so there's this girl that I've been really good friends with for a few years. I started to like her and shit and blah blah blah
I just asked her out and she said ye. I'm so fucking hyped, was nervous af but she seemed to know I was gonna ask.
guys this is big shit for me.
Edit: oh shit i didn't know what was going on the thread. my bad obscene
it's rude to talk behind a phone. maybe she misinterpreted the situation cuz translating. either way
You could always try the 'home' end, and suggest to customs that the two of them are going to be attempting to bring some Columbian marching powder back with them.
It's time to telephone some bomb threats dude.
It's nice that she's confirmed she's a piece of shit though
uck. He just had a new album drop too.
I might actually have to listen to him for once
what castle was that?
You look like the hobbit from Lost
Hey so why does anyone actually hate American Idol? I've never minded it really; maybe because it's been around forever to me. Of course it tries to overstate its own importance but it has to. I've only watched like two or three episodes a season tops ever but it's fine dumb entertainment. It's not like it's trying to be art or anything
I would make this a thread but it's not 2002 so
Yeah but ugh effort right
Don't worry about it mate, can't imagine the first thing I'd do on holiday would be "where the UGers at?" Either
guitarxo for most cat posts
I don't think I could ever have something delivered that's not for a party
Lol, imagine if you said this to old people regularly.
Seriously the most beautiful person I've ever seen
I knew you were back when I got dat profile view how you is, knobs??
The prodigal son returns
I was like wait a minute I've seen you post a bunch recently. But that was whywefight.