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If anyone's the narcissist, it's me. I think we're great together.

My snarky thinking with regards to all the stuff we talked about is, I'm pretty sure, based on my own insecurities and of losing her - so why I continue I don't know. Life's much happier when I'm not questioning other people's intentions. And I really do trust her.

Thanks for your help. Was good to get a second opinion.
Yeah, they're not flirty or suggestive.

I think I can be a judgemental guy. She's my first major girlfriend and I've spent the most of my 25 years alone, so I think I learnt to deal with the world with my own fairly rigid guidelines.

Maybe I just get jealous that other guys talk to her on there.

I know I need to get my head straight - it's on me

Is thinking she's a bit of a narcissist just a defence mechanism for myself? Projecting, perhaps? I think I'm pretty self-aware.
I judge my girlfriend for tweeting lots. It's probably down to my own insecurities of losing her. Maybe I'm scared that she's reaching out to others for validation. Maybe I think she can be self-centered and loves to talk about herself and I judge her for that. I stopped being so out there on social media, generally, when we got together. I'm an introvert and she's an extrovert - maybe I should quit whining and accept who she is in this regard.

I don't want (and can't, of course) to stop her voicing her opinions, talking to people, going out, etc. I'd never want that.

Either way, my snarky comments come through and I'm finding it hard to control. I love her and I don't want to lose her. Maybe that manifests itself in this. I just feel like I'm awful and controlling.

Any thoughts?
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Yeah, I saw her slowly distancing herself over the last 2 weeks so it was no shock. Feels like I'd adjusted to barely seeing her anyway. Followed the gut feeling and seems I was right.
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^^ Oh, man. What the actual ****.
I've been seeing a girl for over a month and things are going really well. Enjoy her company and I figure we're exclusive now. She's not seeing anyone else but we haven't mentioned the exclusivity thing. I mean, it's not necessary when it's implied, right?

Anyhow, happy.
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Sounds like it went pretty well, but you shouldn't have declined the invite to go to hers.

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Glad things are going well! How long have you been going out?
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Don't: bother her whilst she's out having a good time.
Do: relax, trust her.
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We did a fair bit of messaging and some texting back-and-forth before meeting so it wasn't really. And we didn't feel any awkwardness. Depends on the person, I guess. She was open and not so dissimilar from her online persona.
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It's easy to hate online dating as a guy, but I've got loads of dates out of it, and a 3 month relationship (err, that's my longest). So I don't hold anything against it.
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I like you. A lot

First date went really well. Lots to talk about and I'd like to see her again.
What kind of guy needs a website to get a date though?



But I do have a date with a girl I met online, tonight.
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Me too, man. Watching me play badminton is a right laugh though.
Her actions > her words.

But what did she say specifically? Sorry to drag that up.
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