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Why is this thread so anti-woman?
I don't feel like explaining this all but I'm single again and I've been for a while. I've fallen for another girl and she's admitted feelings for me, but we're not sure if we should date. I asked her out, and all she said was "Hmm..." so I take it that she was thinking about it and forgot. I asked that Saturday, and we haven't talked about it since. I think I'm going to let it ride until maybe Wednesday and ask again. What say you, pit?
she wanted to date me first. but we both had alot of stuff that time...and we were both like "yeah when we have time we should totally hang out...." so when we had time i asked her out but she probably felt already more for that other guy because she gave some lame excuse. her attitude towards me had already been changed, so when i asked her why she ignored me alot lately she friendzoned me.
i feel used. i've been friendzoned a while ago and as things turned out she started a relationship 3 days after that. Normally i wouldn't care but SHE wanted to date me, gave me hints,... she had me at my best yet she chose to break my heart. Also the fact that she said she was honest with me tastes really bad, for honesty you were 2 months too late you slut. all you ever needed me for was to comfort your insecure miserable life, to tell how great you are...
i know you can't read this but you truly are a heartless bitch
Hey relationship thread. I usually lurk around but never had to actually post. Well times have changed.
Over the last two months I have started to develop a small crush on one of my friends. Me and her get along pretty good and have a good amount of mutual friends. While I know she likes me as a friend, theres a small part of me that thinks she may reciprocate some feelings as well, but its really hard to tell as she is naturally flirty. We also sort-of cuddled one night for a bit (although she was quite intoxicated). The next morning she didn't really remember much, so i'm afraid that this might be a fluke symptom now....
There is a few problems though. The big one is that we work together. If I ask her out and she friend-zones me, things will be super awkward and literally everyone I come into contact with will be making fun of the whole thing. Like I said earlier she is also really flirty, so I keep getting mixed signals (i'm like 80% sure I'm just a friend, but dammit that extra 20% of me is going crazy over this). She also is not the relationship type of girl. She appears to be happy being single.
So pit, what do you think? Should I take the chance of utmost humiliation and talk to her about my feelings? We're almost always together in a group of people, so its hard to get one on one time with her. Or should I realize that getting involved with a co-worker and risking loosing my friendship with her is not worth it and try to move on?
Its really rare when I get feelings for someone. Like once every 2-3 years, so if I move on, chances are its going to be along time before I get into a relationship of some sort. Any suggestions on how to successfully execute any of this would be great.
Sorry for long read.
TL;DR- Feelings for this girl, who is co-worker and friend. Would be super embarrassing if shot down. We sort of had one "spark" moment when drunk. She does not remember (or does not want to talk about it). She is a a natural flirt though. What I do?
Do you guys still think I have a chance to get him to go out with me? I don't really know where to go from here since he's not answering my texts.
Alright, acceptable dating age is (Your age)/2+7. I'm a Junior in High School, turned 17 a few weeks ago and talking to this girl. She's a freshman, but almost a sophomore. The cutoff to be put into school is late September and she was born in early November, so she's just a bit more than a month away from being a grade below me. She's awesome, she's into me, I'm into her, if her parents approve I'm going to be with her regardless of what everyone else thinks, but do you guys think I'll get too much shit from my friends for dating a freshman? Her sister's in my class, but she's annoying as an extra pinky so I'll probably catch hell from her. That's whatever though, I don't know why I thought it was important enough to write down, but I'm not changing it.
So, a month ago I was broken up with. Which sucked, a lot. But that's not my point. I was in school and I saw a friend of mine from geography last semester. So I sat with her and her friends. Big mistake. Because now one of her friends is like, really into me. But i don't feel that way about her. It gets worse. Her other friend was referring to myself and this other girl as "lovebirds" which leads me to believe that she talks about me to her friends. Which is pretty "whatever" really, I don't give a crap who talks about me. But I don't know what to do.
Oh, and she's clingy as hell. I can't even take a shower without getting at least one more text. I don't know what to do about this, because I don't like hurting people's feelings. But I can't let it go on the way it is.
Not only that, but there's a different girl I'm kind of interested in, but I'm afraid it may be like a rebound.
So basically, I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place in this situation... any advice?
I text this girl if she wants to go somewhere on Wednesday evening and she doesn't reply until like 20 minutes before the time we were supposed to go saying she definitely wants to go in the 'near future', whatever that means, but couldn't that specific day. Possibly a legitimate excuse, makes no sense for her to say 'I definitely want to go' if she wasn't interested I guess. Are all girls this wtf or do I just run into the most confusing ones?
Hey hey. Married life is frickin' awesome, can't complain in the slightest. Honeymoon, we're not doing till over Xmas this year, so as we can put money aside throughout the year for it, and it gives us something to look forward to anyways. But I've no doubt it will be good haha.
How's tricks with you mate? I feel so disconnected, I never get time to come in here in any more with work and life and all that. . .
This one might take a while but I'm at my wits end. I have been with my current girlfriend for nearly 4 years, she's been nothing but great to me but she has her own issues that mainly derive from her previous relationship where she was cheated on multiple times. These problems usually lead to arguments between us that have been getting worse and a lot more ferocious the past few months.
I still love her but I know I feel differently about her, something's changed and I'm unsure as to whether it's me looking to end it but not having the guts or something else. Another thing bothering me is what she would do to herself if I did end it, she's never threatened anything in that way but she's cut herself before and she'd have literally no one else if I ended it. I'd really appreciate any help because I've basically stopped putting in any effort and I'm afraid of dragging it on and hurting her even more. Thanks guys, feels good to get it off my chest.
Shit is hitting the fan HARD. On last Friday, my ex actually cheated on me. On Saturday we broke up, some more drama. Today I asked her if she actually did cheat on me on Friday. Now this wasn't the deal here, because apparently I'm: paranoid, controlling, can't hold promises, can't understand that the relationship is over, idiot, no courage, can't handle the fact that we're now friends and that I got nothing to do with her anymore. But wait, there's more, apparently she wanted to break up with me earlier because this kind of behavior. She poured some big shit over me, but it's ****ing done now. **** her. I got my own problems, for example a lot self esteem issues, plus parents issues. I don't have to deal with this shit. She gives me such a ****ing hard time because she also has low self esteem, but no one cares about that! She's ****ing perfect and can control her feelings really good. **** that, I'm pissed off.
EDIT: And it always was my fault, but I knew when I did wrong and I knew WHY I DID IT. She treated me like shit, but I don't know if she does on purpose. She is a lovely girl, but she is in a shitty position in life atm.
Quoted for truth man.
Thought I'd update my situation, everything seems fine again, we had a little chat about it and it all seemed okay; she even opened up to me in a way she has felt really uncomfortable doing before, so I guess good came out of it.
On the subject of quotes this one always helped me a lot with break ups:
"Everything will be okay in the end. If it's not okay, it's not the end."
Thanks a lot for the advice guys. Helps a lot. Cheers.
Freezer: man that's gotta be rough. I assume you lost your best friend as well?
Fellas, about five months ago my girlfriend of 15 months broke it off with me because she said she was never in love with me, and that's been kind of tough. We broke up about two months before for around a week but I managed to convince her (to my own detriment) to stay together to see if anything changes. We tried to remain friends after everything (again, stupidly), we went from talking daily while together, to three days per week, to maybe once a week and now we haven't spoken in about a month. I've hooked up with other girls since we broke up, gotten a few numbers, had different girls in my life ask me out and it really doesn't feel like I'm any closer to getting over it than I was five months ago.
Anyway, this was my first real girlfriend (although not the first girl I've been with sexually - to kind of throw that potential theory out the window in answering my question). The whole process of meeting her/the process of getting to know one another, and eventually dating just had a pretty great feeling about it; probably the happiest I've ever been. I'm just wondering if that feeling really comes back with subsequent girls or if it all kind of gets jaded after that first time you experience that feeling?
This is mainly to those who experienced the first one a little later than others.
Sup guys, i have questions again!
Anyway, its been like 2 months since me and my gf broke up. I kinda miss her, but not really in a romantic way, but more like how i would miss a friend if he went away. So anyway, after trying to go out with a girl i am clearly friendzoned by (sucks, but what you gonna do right?), i kinda decided that im not gonna worry about women for a while.
So, there i am, not worrying about women, and out of the blue a classmate at college asks me "Hey, do you still have your gf?" and im like "No, not like for two months." And then she started saying how she broke up with her bf recently, and how she is single now, and what a cheereful person she is, and how her fb was bad, and how she is single, oh, and i almost forgot, how she is single now.
So, am i reading to much into this, or is she a bit into me? She is hot, and we got along good until now, so i guess i could ask her out? I just don't really know how, since i never actually asked a girl out on like a date (i have no idea how i managed to score my previous gf's).
So, as always, bless me with your wisdom pit!
So coming out and saying "I know I've spoken about exes too much recently but I really didn't mean it like that" is a waste of time? I'd kinda assume so.
I did kinda assume that. Anything I can do?
Pretty sure I said some stuff whilst drunk that made her think that I did, which wasn't my intention I was just trying to explain something but I forget exactly what. While I'll admit I "miss" my ex I don't want to be with her again; it's not missing in a romantic context. I'm a bit of a sentimentalist.
So guys quick bit of advice guys? My (relatively) new gf (it's been like 3 months or so) is acting a little weird. We live together (we were uni house mates before anything happened) and things are getting... well I dunno I think it's weird but I get a little paranoid over relationships after being screwed over a few times before.
Basically it's the hot/cold act. For the last few days, well she doesn't act like she hates me or anything but she's just quiet... I'll ask if anything is the matter and she of course say "no". I know she does get in moods from time to time; then again I do the same. The weird part is, is when we're in bed together (sleeping for all you dirty minded people) she'll come and cuddle up to me of her own volition, and at times she very obviously happy to see me whilst not in bed too. So I don't get it.
A few days before this started I woke up to her crying because she thought I'd rather be with my ex than her, which I thought I'd managed to convince her I didn't but maybe that has something to do with it? (I definitely don't want to be back with my ex btw.)
Cool, yeah I don't think I am any more so than a normal person. It's not like I've had much trouble finding women to have around here, it's just that I haven't found one that feels the same to be around as the women I had back home.
Thinking about it, it's almost creepy how much being with my ex gave the same feelings as being around my mother
I know what I want from women at the moment, and in general. Well at least I think I do. And yeah, as close as a kid living away from his parents can be I guess. The thing I'm not sure about is whether my wanting to have a woman around is due to some kind of insecurity within myself or just a natural reaction to having been doing it for so long.
On that note, is it appropriate to attempt a follow-up call just in case? The way I see it there's nothing to lose, if it works then good, if it doesn't, you're back where you started and you can move on.
Damn, not a good sign for me then. Just makes girls seem more wtf than they already are. It's like, why did you give me your number? Why did you suggest we should meet at x place? Why did you ask me to coffee?
Sending mixed signals to me all the time man.
And it hurts more than it should when your text gets ignored by someone you thought was really cool/someone you thought liked you.
I think I've figured out why I don't like being single. From about the age of 10 I've had a woman in my life to look after on a daily basis. Now that I'm both single and away from my mother I feel like a natural part of my life is missing. I think I tried projecting this on to a couple girls I've met here to disastrous effect. Meh
If you are having a text conversation with a girl and you ask when shes free to hang out and she doesnt respond is it safe to say shes not interested?
I mean I can jump to conclusions but to me its seems pretty straightforward.
Losing your virginity is not related to being cool or not.
Aw dude, I just found some makeup brushes and eyeliner she accidentally left in my room. Perfect excuse to meet up with her again or what?
how to i get laid before I'm 18 so I'm not a loser?
You are so stuck in 2008 it's ridiculous.
Ehhh don't worry about it. We're fine for now. I'd be okay if Våd wanted to throw one down, but not really anyone else is active enough.
usually so people can brag about being the thread creator
We don't really need a new one yet, it's whatever. Chill dude.
There's always been a caps lock filter.
If a girl starts complaining to you about her ex, are you supposed to shit talk him or what. What's the strategy here? Like, I never knew him but I knew who he WAS and thought he was a terrible choice for her, and now she's talking about he won't leave her alone and he owes her money and she's really good friends with his roommate and I don't really know where to go with any of this because I don't know any of these people or anything about their situation. But it sounds complicated and obviously if he's harassing her, I might get involved if anything happens between me and her.
Thanks Freezer. I just wasn't sure who was more in the right. My girlfriend likes to talk and some might call her annoying, but I don't mind it. She completes that aspect of me because I am usually the one of few words