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Just wanted to know what you guys think about girls who have a lot of guy "friends" you could say. Normally I wouldn't have a problem however I've had two exes in the past who also had a lot of guy friends however those friends eventually turned out to be a little more than just friends. I'm talking to this new girl and notice she too has a ton of guy friends as well. Naturally given whats happened in my past my guard is up I'm trying to approach this without putting on her what my exes did if that makes sense.
So basically just curious as to how you guys all handle a situation where a girl has a lot of guy friends. I personally have quite a few good girl"friends" but I normally tend to back off those like the hanging out alone and constant talking when I enter a relationship mainly out of respect for the girl I'm with and respect for the relationship. Also because I wouldn't want to have to go through all that with the girl and her friends but not everyone is like me.
I'm not a jealous person but I personally do not want to deal with all the dumb shit I've already gone through before in a situation like this. Any advice would be appreciated.
I just texted her "hey" and immediately got back
"I love you"
"I want you to know that I love you so much"
"I miss you"
man just when you think you've got it figured out and understand women you get a curveball to the face. shit just makes no sense to me. Women are ****ed.
Yeah, seems about right. Not much I can or could do then.
What about her lesbian side thing? She only watches lesbian porn, when she goes solo she mostly imagines one of her female friends, ... I would have quit her a while ago, if only she didn't say she could also imagine being with me, sexually, also having a dream about me, saying she has no preferences over gender and well, telling me that this is not the reason for her wish to put things off for a few weeks. Should I even be concerned about her orientation or trust her completely? Because as you said, I should rather observe her actions than her words, and in this case actions seem a lot more gloomy for me than her words.
the dude with the star wolf avatar. because "Ace" is so hard to remember
It indeed was a crush, she gave strong hints of even wanting to have sex with me, we had quite a few conversations on dirty topics, it was all going so well, but as she told me later on, she gradually felt less and less comfortable as making out would involve more and more touching each time we met. She never showed it though, she got hold of my crotch without any persuasion and seemed to like it when I did the same. That's why I find it strange she would so quickly lose most of sexual interest in me, but still show that much interest to keep me around.
Well, she did like it, physically, but something put her off mentally. Among the other reasons, perhaps the women fantasies thing, perhaps her lower self esteem (she said she's not even comfortable getting naked alone to get a shower), I never knew for sure, neither did she.
Sorry Freezer, I read the op a while ago. We're 19.
We aren't dating at the moment, but we did for a happy month (well, if the first month hadn't been happy then that'd have already been strange from the beggining), then things got complicated.
It wasn't completely what you would call dating though, because we didn't talk about our feelings, until she was already a bit confused about what she wanted, as her crush on me faded and it was about the time deeper feelings would show up, if they developed.
They partially did, she told me. But not as strong as mine were (why do you think I don't love her?), leading in the conflict of how often we'd hook up.
You are probably right, about her seeing me as a friend only at the moment. It's just me that's still grasping her words that she might change - after we have time again and will be able to hang out more often - that is keeping my hopes high enough (though low)
So, no one really seems to care, but thats ok, I ain't even mad, I swear. =P Everything worked out just fine and is right on track and stuff. I was clearly just being my anxious self. As an fyi to other people, listen to these guys. They are very rarely wrong. I started reading what these guys had to say, a while ago and it did help. It really is just common sense and experience. If blake, or the dude with the star wolf avatar say to do something...you should do it.
The girl I'm into fantasizes about other women, even had experience with them, but also finds herself attracted to me, although not as sexually as she was before to a woman.
We talked quite a bit about this, mostly because I never quite knew if this was the problem for our relationship to have so many ups and downs. Ups being the time when we actually spent time together and a few days after that, then after not getting any signs of affection towards me from her, it got me wondering again.
I might have told her too much about my feelings, too many times all over again, hoping to get a clear answer from her, but she just doesn't know what she feels now or if her feelings might change dramatically after the stress is over (I can tell that it really did have an effect on her for the worse).
On top of that, I'm not sure if I still insist with her because I love her or because I really believe that she's my type, because we can talk just about anything, the dirtiest and sickest secrets, but in many ways we're not compatible. I wouldn't really mind though, if only she showed as much interest as I do.
Can I even expect from her to be exact about what she wishes from me? How should I play this? In 2 weeks there's going to be plenty of time to hang around, I plan on taking her to a few places and seeing how she responds, but until then?
Hey guys, I'll try to keep this short.
My girlfriend and I have been together 2.5 years, and I care about her a lot. I have never done anything inappropriate behind her back and have no reason to believe that she has done anything either.
Anyway, this summer she is likely to be going away for 2 or so months. I am planning on having a trip interstate with some friends, basically just have a 'boys trip' and have a good time. We are going to go to a strip club (which my girlfriend is cool with) and a few of my friends are quite looking forward to getting lap dances.
My question is this; I am keen to get a lap dance too. It's not something I do every day, and to be honest I don't see it as being inappropriate. I can honestly say that if my girlfriend went with her friends to a male strip club (I assume these exist) and she got the equivalent of a lap dance it would not bother me. If she was grinding some random guy at a club I would see that as being inappropriate, but I feel as though strip clubs are just a form of entertainment.
I need some honest and impartial opinions; am I alone is believing this is alright? If so, what would be the best way of letting my girlfriend know and her being okay with it?
So I just got a girlfriend and that's helping tremendously with the whole first love thing, because I think this new girl is far better for me than her. But we were asking each other random questions and she asked if I was bi. I told her probably, because I'm not completely sure myself. And she kept asking about it and it got me thinking. How would I know if I was bi and who would I ask/tell about it?
Met up with a 'friend' last night. We've hung out and had drinks a few times before and there's been mutual interest. The evening went well. We had cocktails, she was flirting like crazy and I went in for a kiss - she reciprocated (tongues too), but from that moment she seemed distant, hesitant with something on her mind. Body language changed a bit and she turned a cheek when I kissed her goodnight.
Now, I'm almost 100% I know what this is. Her and her boyfriend of 2 years broke up around a month and a half ago. She still talks about him and isn't over him.
Makes sense, I understand and I'm thinking I should distance myself here and give her time - move on and find other girls? I just don't know how to approach this from a contact POV - cut it for now?
You and I both know you don't mean that. You gotta be more outgoing, confident and happy in life. Shit man, I ooze positivity and believe me, girls can pick up on that. Think about it. Would you want to be with a really pissed off, depressing girl that doesn't like anything? If not, apply the same standards to yourself that you would to a girl
So um, this is kinda the opposite of a problem and I really dont think i should complain but there are too many girls that like me. How can I turn them down without hurting them
Not sure what you mean by this. I meant it was the last time I'd see her through that avenue.
Nah I can see why I would have come off as nervous, but I;m not. She's really easy to talk to and I'm quite comfortable around her.
And neither of us can drive, that's why I mentioned we're 16.
Good. I hope a girl never looks at me twice again.
I just listen to soul crushingly sad music and leave the blinds down.
Girl and boy likes each other. Girl likes talking to boy a lot. They have sex and hang out just like a couple. Girl doesn't want to be **** buddy. Girl doesn't want to be "together" or "stuck" nor exclusive, she wants to be "free".
Drink whisky alone in the park at 3am listening to Shlohmo
I don't know you of course and no one else on here but why would a girl chase you other than for money when there are so many other guys/girls they can have? I see the ugliest, fattest bitches get fought over by guys.
One thing I've found to help me out with my whole situation is to make a music playlist. Starting off with some sappy break up songs and shit, and then slowly have them get more and more positive until it ends with one of the happiest songs you can imagine. You go from both extremes. First, sadness to bring about some self reflection and stuff. Then the most happy and upbeat shit to put you in a great mood. I feel like it kind of reflects the break up process in a way. You're ****ing miserable at first, but overtime things get better and better until they culminate into complete happiness.
Or maybe I'm full of shit.
I escaped the friend zone (She even added me as her brother on facebook at one stage)
And we're meeting up to 'escape' it again this weekend.
It's not impossible brothers, you just need to make space between the two of you, be up front about your feelings and not let her get away with petty shit that you used to. Godspeed and goodluck to anyone in this situation
Hey everyone I'm a bit new to the whole relationship thing. I met a really cool girl over the past few days and I got her phone number earlier today since it was going to be the last time I'd see her.
Thing is now I don't even know what to do with it. Call me an idiot or whatever, but I have no idea. I said maybe we could try something this weekend or the next but I'm looking at the phone number in my contacts and I'm all "wut." She said she didn't know when she was free but yeah. Feeling a bit clueless.
It's kind of complicated too since I think she might already have a boyfriend, plus I don't think I quite made it explicitly clear about it being a boyfriend/girlfriend thing. And the whole friend thing seems lame so I rather it would turn out the other way.
Not sure what advice I'm asking for... maybe how to start a text conversation, good place for a 'date' or something or other? lol
Btw we're both 16.
I gave up on trying to find someone earlier this year. I feel it's not worth it for me in the long run. People tell me there's "someone out there for everyone" but I don't believe it. Do you think there is?
The pill itself is about 91% effective compared to ~70-80% on a condom. That's not considering other additions you can add to drop both numbers. While combining both is the safest option, it's not laughable for a person to only choose just one.
And when you consider that a big portion of the 9% of unintended pregnancies happen because of not taking or skipping pills, the number lies a bit.
tl;dr I'm on the same boat as guy above, even though it's for different reason. Don't let your paranoia dictate at who you laugh at.
Now I just want to go get rebound sex for the next month or so. It's so nice not having to use condoms though when you are in a relationship where she's on birth control. I've actually never used condoms. :/
Some one has been reading his girlschase well haha
By having her block me it makes it so I can't go back though and unblock her if I'm ever in a moment of weakness, so I think it works better that way. Right now I've mainly been playing GW2 and Dayz, I'm a pretty big mmorpg junkie so there aren't many I don't/haven't play[ed].
Just a curiosity..
Often, when I find myself with a group of people, I find myself being the one who makes a lot of jokes, making everybody laugh, etc.
And I am always remembered because of it, I often end up as the centre of attention, simply 'cause I'm always making everyone laugh and all.
How does this ruin my chances with any of the girls?
..Like, I kind of imagine how being like an entertainer ruins any chances..is this true?
'Cause I kind of like it..it comes naturally...often people want to be around me because of it but if it seems that losery I'll cut it out a bit.
Story is a page back but incase anyone cant be bothered to remember: cheated on after 4 years.
I agree with everything you all are saying and actually had already told her to block me on facebook so i can't see any of her stuff. And I'm pretty confident it wasn't me that was sufficiently lacking, all my friends say I treated her too well tbh. I always sent flowers, made her CD's of new music, I'm good at art and would send her pictures with her favorite type of chocolate covered pretzels and whatnot. An odd plus to the situation I had no idea would occur is that I have more money lol, seeing it stack up allowed me to treat myself the other day and buy a nice new gaming mouse I've had my eye on for a while, so in the wake of breakup, cheers to playing with yourself!
So, if you remember a few days ago my girlfriend had broken up with me. Id just like to report that im actually pretty decent right now. There's no doubt that I miss her a lot, and if she ever did come back to me id totally go back to her like a dumb idiot. But other than that im doing pretty good. I've just got a question though.
Is rebound sex an okay thing to do? I enjoy having sex just like everyone else, everyone and id kind of like to continue doing that. But i feel like it might be a disrespectful thing to do, and it might just make things worse for me in the end.
Alright. I was just saying cause I almost got some last night. This girl at the bar was hanging out with one of her friends and they kind of joined our group. Then she found out i got dumped and she didn't leave my side the entire night, and it felt awesome to have another girl showing compassion for me.
but anyways, we all go back to their place and she invites me to go smoke a bowl with her on the patio and the two of us were just out there smoking together and she was pointing constellations out in thr sky. I felt like something was going to start between us, and then my friend walks out on the patio and he's like, hey what's up? And then from that point on ge cockblocked me the rest of the night. I was so pissed. And then when we left he was like "did you get her number? She seemed pretty interested in you."
****. She was so cute too
Bleh I know that long distance relationships are hard, but let's be honest: it's never okay to cheat on someone.
Was with a girl for nearly four years and got cheated on. Feelsbadman not to mention I'm only 21 so it's my only real relationship too. I'm not about to say I hate girls or anything like that, but the whole good-guy turned asshole makes a little more sense after this; it's difficult to maintain a level head when your best friend and the best girl you've known cheats on you.
Idk what is worse, the random texts that I still get with the "goodnight + [insert cute emoji here]" or that fact that I still love her, and girls have radars for that stuff and likely still knows. Meh came into some money to spend on some nice clothes and started exercising, she may have been able to find temporary happiness quickly but I think that if I'm able to deal with this healthily I'll come out on top.
This question has no doubt been asked a million different times, but is there anything objectionable about getting a girl's number through a mutual friend?
We've known each other as acquaintances for years and talked numerous times, but I still have reservations about getting her number from someone other than her. I would much prefer to ask her out in person, but I have no idea when I'll see her next. Thoughts?
So I went on a date with this girl and I've been told she likes me and I like her. We went to a small diner for coffee and we agreed to do something again soon. Anyone have advice on where I should take her?
And yes, I read the FAQ, just seeing if anyone has any better or more original ideas. I'm bad at this sort of thing.
So I went round to my girlfriend's place this evening and talked - and we've broken up. I feel like a cruel human being.
Thanks for the advice though, RT. Sure it was the right thing to do.
Does anyone know how to get a free girlschase subscription or recommend something else that's free? I've read some good articles there.
Everyone has autism on the internet
Maybe he's actually not a bear...
I keep on lying to people because I'm spineless and then I make excuses.
Two years ago I dated a girl for a while, and one day she had suddenly removed me from Facebook, didn't answer my calls/texts, nothing... haven't seen her since.
That shit hurt man.
So this site is /relationship/ approved? I thought there was a split opinion.
So I was at my best friend's house swimming in his pool when his little sister and her friend show up in practically nothing but beach towels. My best friend was at work soon to be arriving so I had to choose fast...best friends sister? ...or her beautiful blonde friend. I chose the latter out of guilt. After swimming naked in the pool with this girl that had clearly wanted me and I clearly wanted her , after some making out and foreplay we decided to go for it then and there. The thing that was getting me "all mast up" was my friend's sister sitting there playing with herself watching us. The blonde friend wanted to be more private so we went to the pool kiss and didn't come out unil four hours later, honestly best endurance I've ever had but I was just thinking of my friend's sister over and over.finally she was exhausted and went back to her house. So after a couple rounds of bowls smoked I walk outside and start making out with my BF's sister we do it on he ground under the stars right then and there, pretty amazing. I would spend he night to stay in her bed at least three times a week. He hard part was telling my best friend I was sleeping with his sister.
Anyways topic of story : sisters are off limits
If a girl says she doesnt think she has feelings for you, and probably never will, yet she still wants to spend time with you/ hook up, and has been actively pursuing you for 4 months, asking you out and going on dates with you, is it possible she's lying?
She's never been in a relationship and is a virgin, but has 'been' with guys and they're usually dicks to her, ive been really nice though. I know i should probably just move on cause she said she doesnt feel that way about me, but does anyone think its a possibility she's just scared?
yeah im going to go out tonight with some friends, it just sucks because all of my best friends are also some of ger best friends. I know after all of this has cooled down it'll all be fine between the two of us but at the same time i just can believe myself when i say that's
Also, it does help talking to someone on here. Maybe not as much as being face to face with someone, but it does help.
That really means a lot to me right now. Thanks.